There's this person whom i graduated from high school that keeps bugging me online. Nobody would talk to her much in high school because she was teacher's pet and annoying. I would only talk to her when i had to.During HS she thought we were best friends. She added me onto messenger, i was ok with it. Until she kept talking to me non-stop. I would block her. Then she would make a new name, add me, i would deny her, block her. She'd make a new one...and so on.
I need some help. she is still doing this and its driving me crazy. Its going on 2 years since we graduated.
2007-01-15 09:33:51 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I want to tell her nice as possible. Even though we talked not much...well she ended up getting a job where i worked in high school * i think she was trying to be me*. She stole the guy whom i was going after. I'm now with him. She's giving me crap about him...and he's away in the army.
2007-01-15 09:35:30 · update #1
well i guess i don't wanna tell her as nice as possible. but i swear she was stalking me for a few months. even though its not against the law to go drive on my road...she would turn down it every morning at 7:45..and she lives no where near me...and its out of her way to go to the nearest town.
2007-01-15 11:22:04 · update #2
Two years is a long time for these games.
Ask her to please stop contacting you and do not respond to her in any manner at all.
By responding, you're engaging her. That is what she is wanting.
Ignore her completely.
2007-01-15 10:10:04 · answer #1 · answered by ☼High☼Voltage☼Blonde☼ 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this girl knows exactly what she's doing. If she's making new names to get around your blocks...she knows what's what.
Having said that, are you still worried about hurting her feelings? She doesn't sound like someone who would have a hard time taking a knock or two...she's got to be used to it by now if she is as socially stunted as she sounds.
If she goes into a long drawn out blog about her day and blah, blah, blah....just reply: "Cool".
If she asks you about YOUR day, reply: "Same old crap" or something to that effect
Just keep dishing out the bland, dull replies and she'll either get the hint... or get bored. If she doesn't...she has a real problem and needs to be reported.
2007-01-15 09:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by LolaCorolla 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Document all behavior that could be perceived as inappropriate.
then e-mail her that you feel you no longer have anything in common and don't wish to communicate with her any longer.
If she continues contact your local DA's office and check into getting a no contact order. You blocked her she already knows you don't wish to talk to her but you need to make it official and document her continued harassment.
2007-01-16 04:34:14 · answer #3 · answered by dfuerstcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you try being honest with her? i mean, whatever you tell her is gonna hurt her feelings, so you might as well tell her the truth. maybe she doesn't know she's really annoying... i wouldn't say it that directly, but maybe something like:
you know, i like you but you're starting to get on my nerves a bit because you're always trying to talk to me or chat with me. sometimes i wanna be alone and not bothered by others.
2007-01-15 09:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by ogrulesyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that she didn't realize you blocked her? Maybe it's time to send an e-mail: "Hey Jane, it's nice to talk high school every once in a while, but I have a hard time keeping up with your messages. Would it be okay if you only IMed me once a month or so?"
2007-01-15 09:39:08 · answer #5 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I told a girl in high school that I would love to see her jump from the tower and watch her splat. It didn't work I haven't seen her in at least 6 years, but she just tried to add me on myspace
Good Luck
2007-01-15 09:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by Tito 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Why do you want to tell her as nice a possible?
If you don't like her and don't want to talk to her, just stop talking.
If she IM's you and you find out its her, just don't answer. YOU have that power.
In short, stop answering, then her talking will fall on deaf ears.
2007-01-15 10:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by I_Love_Life! 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be honest...tell her whats up but dont be rude and if she doesn't get it then be more straight forward and she should get it...if not tell her to get lost i think she will get that
2007-01-15 09:43:23 · answer #8 · answered by Scott P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋