The thing is, we act exactly like a couple. The things we say and do, such as saying we miss and like each other all the time. We talk everyday on the phone. and we kiss...pretty much each time we see each other. We seriously do everything a couple does. And I just don't know if it's a good thing because we're not an official couple. We can't stand to be away from each other and have said it to each other. We are confused about how we feel too...normal? He's told me that he's never felt this way about a girl before, and he's never been in a real relationship but he and I just click. Our dates and everything are very couple like. I just don't know what to make of it. I just don't want to feel like I'm wasting my time with him because I know we have really good chemistry, but I'm starting to question if he is ever going to ask me, when we're pretty much exclusive, I mean, everyone knows about us...there's just no title...am i being clingy emotionally?..or should i just go with the flow?
2007-01-15 09:14:59 · 6 answers · asked by lulula123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for the advice guys. i really appreciate it.
2007-01-15 14:18:00 · update #1
personally i believe that he feels as if he doesnt have to ask you out, that its just a known thing. and thats better than being asked out. my boyfriend didnt ask me out really, but he always introduced me as his girlfriend and i introduced him as my boyfriend, it was just a known thing. and weve been togetther for over a year, so yeah..were definately something :P
2007-01-15 13:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jordan Alexis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the two of you have is awesome. As you said you are a "couple". Enjoy it! Are you really worried about the title of "going out" not being there, or is it more of your peers want the two of you to have an official title?
2007-01-15 09:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by Greg M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear, you are reading WAY to much into it and trying to force an issue. New love is wonderful and fun, enjoy that and do not ruin it. Don't ask too many questions you will only push him away. The best relationships are ones that are built on true friendship and not on "infatuation."
2007-01-15 14:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by stratplayer1967 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the flow you are a couple already so just enjoy
2007-01-15 14:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Titles mean nothing, it's how you two are together that counts.
2007-01-15 13:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say this I love you if he says it back don’t weary or if he says it first
2007-01-15 14:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by $$$$$$$$ice man$$$$$$$$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋