i really want to know because if they don't i need to get a diet
2007-01-15 09:09:02 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Big girls need love too ...
2007-01-15 09:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by zappafan 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some guys do, but they're decidedly in the minority... You'd be better served (and have a lot more options) by going on that diet.
And the phrase "get a diet" seems to suggest that you're looking to pick up one of those canned diets (like atkins)... I'd recommend really just eating less (no more than 800 calories a day) and working out on a daily basis.
2007-01-15 09:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mike K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh defiantly! I know a lot of guys who wont even look towards a girl who is all skinny... they don't find that attractive. Majority of men I know want a girl with a lil meat on her bones. The key is being secure with what God gave you...if you would be happier with yourself at a smaller size, then lose a few lbs until you are the size you are happy with. Not everyone is happy with a size 6. There is no way I would ever be happy being a size 6, lol..a 8 yea..but a 6 would look deathly sick on me. So keep these things in mind when deciding if your body imagine is what you feel it should be for attracting men.
Just remember..its all in the confidence. A woman who is considered large, but is very confident of herself will attract a lot more guys than a woman who is considered thin, but has no confidence.
2007-01-15 09:15:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better believe it. I'm sure you have an admirer right now that's scared to step to you. Sooner or later he will. But don't consider going on a diet just to get a guy. If it's something you want to do for YOU or for a health issue, do it. What happens if you lose weight, get a guy and regain the weight? If he only wanted a thinner you, chances are he didn't want you, he wanted what you looked like therefore he may leave.
2007-01-15 09:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't find larger people attractive...and some people aren't attracted to skinny people. That aside, I think what shines through the most is confidence. I've known large women who are extremely overweight but drop-dead gorgeous. And a lot of that is confidence. So work what you've got, girl, and if he doesn't like it, move along! Someone will be interested in what you have! A diet is great for your overall health, but don't do it to meet a man. You're perfect the way you are!
2007-01-15 09:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by shannonscorpio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I have seen some really hot guys with some big girls..There is always someone out there for anybody!Dont let the TV make u think that crap about only skinny chicks are it...When you go out look aound..you will see all different people with big small ugly pretty...But i fyou need to lose weight do it for yourself not for a guy...becausewhat if u were skinny and married some one then u got fat and he wanted a divorce??Wasted time!So find someone who wants u for u.. whether u were 100lbs or 500(lol)No offense to anyone by the way
2007-01-15 09:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by laurancarolina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in my experiences, I've noticed a guy will sooner go out with a big girl then an overly skinny girl any day! But if you're too big, you should go on a diet anyway, if for nothing else, your health.
2007-01-15 09:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see bit women in relationships all the time, so apparently some guys do...however if it's a health issue take care of you. If you are happy being "big" then do what makes you happy...if you want to lose weight for you, then go for it! I went from a size 22 to an 8 many years ago...it was awesome.
2007-01-15 09:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys intentionally try to make their girlfriends bigger. It's called feeding. Personally I think it not so healthy practice.
Obviously I am using an extreme example to show yes some guys like bigger girls, however I would strive to be a healthy weight by eating right and exercising. If you accomplish this not only will you feel better but you will enable you to find the right guy for you.
2007-01-15 09:16:05 · answer #9 · answered by Love of Truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, guys can be rude. but look, u shoodnt go crazy over being bigger than average, i c horrible things happen to big girls b.c there insecure and feel bad. a diet is always a good idea, even if some1 is 5 lbs overweight. big deal. just watch what u eat and exercise, u dnt have to go crazy over something like that. just watch what u eat and exercise when u can if u really want to. but please dnt go nuts over this, i c horrible things happen to people.
2007-01-15 09:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by adam c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are guys who do. I bet your not very big. A guy who cares will want you to be healthy though and not obese. There is a difference between meat on your bones and obese.
I prefer meat on the bones instead of just bones.
2007-01-15 09:13:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋