My 59 year old friend wants to date his 40 year old step-daughter. this man raised her for 15 years. is it only me, or is there a problem with this?
2007-01-15 09:06:22 · 12 answers · asked by k1b1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her mother past away 3 weeks ago, and it turns out he has been "having relations" with her for about 7 years now.
2007-01-15 09:19:37 · update #1
I'll I think that is so gross. He raised her for 15 years?? and he wants to date her?? Thats crazy, I know there are not related but thats bad...real bad. and the age difference is huge (19 yrs.) besides does even want some one that old?
2007-01-15 09:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by L.Rae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i ought to coach your daughter that even moms and dads or on your case step moms and dads make blunders. by technique of not permitting your "step" daughter (and sure you're making confident it truly is sparkling- step) the liberty to deliver her lady friend into your position, you in my view are making a mistake. you're saying "i imagine i'm a minimum of tolerant of it. interior the previous I actual have had many magnificent pals who've chosen to stay in yet in a special way then how i experience we ought to continuously." nicely that sounds slightly hypocritical! Its ok on your individuals yet not your husbands daughter?? i ought to imagine that you are able to love your doorstep daughter as if she were your man or woman, and in doing so should be behind her regardless of options. you do not ought to agree consisting of her yet do not deny your different daughter the right to ascertain about variations! You act like you attempt to guard your youngest yet again in my view your will in simple terms finally end up coaching her that its not okay to settle for someone for being diverse. by technique of how by technique of asking your husband to not enable her lady friend into the living house not in effortless words are you probable making her unaccepted by technique of you, and probable neglected and albeit not understood yet dragging her father into it truly is fantastically low! Now apart from my opinion above why do not you try taking a step again, and examine out to appreciate that anybody is diverse. try coaching your toddler which it truly is okay, coach her that she would not ought to believe anybody else's alternatives yet that would not lead them to incorrect. If not something else as her to have respect for you (not that you seem to have a lot for her or her emotions) and your beliefs and by no skill act inappropriately in the front of her toddler sister. i imagine that shed keep in mind that slightly better than the way you're handling the problem now!
2016-11-24 19:51:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is just weird!!! People do Stupid things in the world tell him to find some else, If it did not work out with her mother what makes him think it will work with her. His just going to cause problems in her life.
2007-01-15 09:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by Nicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would say a big big problem, but they arent actually related in anyway.
2007-01-15 09:10:37 · answer #4 · answered by Cool Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! This is definitely wrong! What happened to the girl's mom?
2007-01-15 09:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep major problem,even though there isn't any real relation
2007-01-15 09:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they can live with what they are doing then who are we to say what is wrong or right.
2007-01-15 09:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by azeris23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does she want to date him?
it's kinda creepy
2007-01-15 09:12:35 · answer #8 · answered by martinmagini 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the heart wants what it wants
2007-01-15 09:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by MiKe Drazen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is sooooo weird... but it's legal
2007-01-15 09:12:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋