He works in my building; I see him often although I usually don't work directly with him. He's not seeing anyone last I heard. I get "vibes" from him all the time--he brushes against me and touches my arm when he talks to me. He always seems happy to see me.
I think if a person touches you, they are interested. What do you think? Should I ask him out? And why do you think he hasn't asked me? We're not youngsters!! We're both in our 30s.
2007-01-15 09:05:28 · 11 answers · asked by sandiemaye 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should go ahead and ask him out if you are interested in him and if you think that he likes you too. He may have not asked you because he is either scared, thinks your with someone, or a couple of other reasons. that same question could be used on you... Why haven't you asked him out?
2007-01-15 09:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by ithek_thundervoice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give him a few little hints to see if he will ask you out. You really don't want to change him from being happy to see you to feeling uncomfortable around you. Just start flirting more heavily and see where it takes you. Do let him know that you are available!
2007-01-15 17:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by kris10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me, like he is attracted to you. If your also attracted to him, then there's nothing wrong, with a woman asking a man out. Maybe he's just really shy, and can't work up the courage to ask you. Go ahead, and have fun!
2007-01-15 17:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by Chihuahua Lover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said. Your not youngsters. So why are you asking us what to do like a 13 year old would? GO FOR IT GIRL!!!
2007-01-15 17:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by Ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well be careful don't ask him right out but start showing you really like him. like when your talking look him in the eye, touch his arm a lot, laugh at his all jokes, you know stuff like that
2007-01-15 17:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the man a chance to make his move, before you start rushing things. If he plans to ask you out, he'll do it on his own time.
2007-01-15 17:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask, what`s the worst thing that could happen? Just ask him casually and see what happens.
2007-01-15 17:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by LENE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is 2007 go ask him out
2007-01-15 17:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by wolfchat_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ask him out, either that or get him arrested for sexual harrasment, its upto you!
2007-01-15 17:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by Cool Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out!
2007-01-15 17:14:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋