and i dont want to have sex with him because i am still a virgin and waiting for the person that is going to love me for who i am and right now i am more focused on school and getting a job
2007-01-15 09:04:53 · 12 answers · asked by Gucci Lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him alone cuz he is obviously only concerned with his needs and wants. Continue to focus on school and getting a job you are definitely on the right track. Men come by the dozen. If you are not ready then wait. wait till you feel it is right. cuz once you lose your virginity that's it. you get one chance to have it like you want and if you have respect for yourself then you will do what is right. Good luck. Please remember that the only person you have to be the sh*t to is yourself. It doesn't matter what men think of you. It matter what you think of yourself. So hold your head up and continue to do what you do.
2007-01-15 09:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by azeris23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him lke a hot potatoe. When I was 16 I had my first true love. We dated for a year and went to Prom together. He wanted sex that night and I didn't agree. Like you I as a virgin and waiting. I never heard from him after Prom but I did find out he was dating a girl with a "loose" reputation. Mad me glad I didn't give in. His sex drive was more than his feelings for me.
2007-01-15 17:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by sweet sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a no-brainer! A guy that doesn't respect your values and decisions and would punish you for sticking to your guns by cheating on you.....is not boyfriend material! I suggest you let him be some one else's problem and you keep on trucking until you find some one that DOES respect and share your values and goals! Its hard to do but in the long run, you'll be so much happier w/ yourself! Also, stay a virgin as long as you can!!! Less drama!!
2007-01-15 17:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by Haleigh's Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should dump him. What a jerk. Stick to your guns and dont have sex. Never let anyone pressure you into something so serious. If you want your first time to be with someone who loves you this guy isn't the one. Right after your done reading this call him and tell him to go to hell. What a jerk.
2007-01-15 17:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say dump his @ss quick!! He isn't even thinking of you...he is just being selfish. And never let someones empty threats make you do something you don't want to. Stand your ground and then find a man that is on your level...You don't need the foolishness!
2007-01-15 17:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give it to him!!! if he said that that means he doesnt love you because he is not gonna wait 4 u!! i know its hard but just leave him and let him "look 4 someone else".. his not worht it
2007-01-15 17:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by rosita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE cant respect your wishes which means that he doesnt respect you. Find another guy that can wait right along with you. Hes a loser.
2007-01-15 17:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! If that's all he wants why would you want him as a boyfriend anyway? Dammit ladies stop putting up with this crap!
2007-01-15 17:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by sleepymcgee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let em go get a whorebag, if and when he returns don't take'em back; he doesn't respect you. just wants some booty
2007-01-15 17:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by tex-mex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new boyfriend
2007-01-15 17:15:38 · answer #10 · answered by Mouseling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋