my ex broke up with me 3months ago, it was my fault i was needy, she wanted to stay freinds i treid to win her back many times i rang her and told her how feel...eventually i got over that,, so as soon as i stopped calling her ,she started calling me, and staying on the phone for ages i just kept cool i didnt mention anything bout love or anything.. then she asked me to go for a drink with her so idid we ended up in a club and she was really flirty with me, kissing my neck holding my hand n stuff the next day she said she just wants to be freinds, a week later(new years eve) i was out in a bar she was there too. iwalked outside for a smoked and i saw her kissin another guy then she saw me and she stopped kissing him, i didnt talk to her for a few days even though she was txtin me saying sorry n trying to call me... i got over that, i called her and said sorry for over reacting, i esaid i cant stop you, she said sorry for hurting me.. she said can we start over as freinds... i said i need time to think, i txted her the next day and said i still care bout you n id rather have you as a freind than have you as nothing, she txt back, saying that i cant be her freind and not be her freind whenever i feel like it, i just said fair enough, an hour later she called she sounded like she was crying and she was saying sorry for giving out to me.. i said its ok, so we are just freinds now, but if she really wants to stay freinds, y does she txt me, e mail me, call me everying day????
what do you think??
i went to the local bar last night with my freind, and she was there... i saw her first and when she saw me she started dancing(so fake) so i went into the other side of the bar... 2 mins later she came in with her freinds, she was acting really annoying, she came over to me and said hi, i jus said hay hows it goin, and turned back to talk to my freind, for the rest of the night she stayed around the area i was in, she kept comming over to me and falling into me and putting her hand on my leg when she was talking to me.. then she sat down at a table eall on her own with a sad face which was clearly in my view.. she was mad for my attention even my freind said it was so ovious! what do you think about my ex?? do you think she really just wants to be freinds or do you think she could still want me?
she rang me today we where talking for ages she said she loves talking to me!! then this evening she txted me and asked me would i go out to dinner with her then see a movie, sometime during the week, she said she is free anytime i am... so we are going on tuesday..... does this seem like she may want me back?? i dont think she would be bothered with all this if she didnt.
2007-01-15 09:04:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, I think you need to figure out what YOU want. She seems to be all over the place and it is obvious she has no idea what she wants. I do think she likes you, but do you really want to be with someone who is so unpredictable? If you like her and think she will change then by all means stick it out and see what happens. From an outsider's view it seems you may be better to move on (as hard as that may be).
2007-01-15 09:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by crapicella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE EXS FOR A REASON YOU CAN NEVER GO BACK TO THE WAY THINGS WERE!! TAKE THIS NEW FRIENDSHIP AND RUN WITH IT BUT MAKE SURE THATS ALL IT IS IS FRIENDS!!! YOU CANT CHANGE THE PAST
2007-01-15 17:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and ask her
2007-01-15 17:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋