so i pretty much like this guy and me and him have had a good time especially in un, in reality we dont get along and that's the fun of it cos we both crack each other up about us not ever getting along but he's finanly going off to college well he's actually in college today and i just miss him we talked before he go but u know we were just friends we were never alone together, i think he had a girlfriend but then again i dont think he do, on his messenger list one time he said im missing my baby but one time like three months ago he said he doesn't have a girlfriend and i dont think he do. well im not sure if he feel the same thing im feeling but he sure act like he like me well i dont know what to say to him and now that i dont see him anymore i dont know what to do. i have his number i even wish him luck at college but i just dont know how to get accross if he like me. any ideas?
2007-01-15 08:59:31 · 16 answers · asked by 9jagurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him and tell him how you feel.
Good Luck
2007-01-15 09:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A closed mouth will never get fed and if he is at college you need to do it quick cause I sure that there is a lot of others that he can find... even if you don't want to just come out and say it you still need to drop hints and big ones (some guys don't pick em up easy) but it sounds like U 2 are good together..... Oh but then if he is long distance at college that could be another problem but thats something U 2 would have to work out
2007-01-15 17:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by missme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're afraid to step out on a limb, so to speak, and I don't blame you for that. However, if you don't at least take a little risk, you may never know. If you are as good friends as it sounds like, a good heart to heart talk and joking involved might be what you need, some truth telling I guess. If he lived close enough for you to see him more, I'd just suggest that. But if he's living too far to see him much, then perhaps a little stronger hint is needed.
On the other hand, remember that some people have ruined great friendships when they got too close and tried a relationship out. Be sure you're willing to risk losing a good friend before you make that bold move.
2007-01-15 17:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun he is going off to college so theres not alot you can do. you can try to let him go emotinaly but still keep in touch threw phone calls letters and when he comes home for the holidays he might get carried away and caught up in all the new of college making new friends and stuff. but one thing i do know is if its ment to be you and him to gether only time will tell. but if its ment to be you will be together.but dont sit around bored and worrring about it. go ahead and see what else is out there. you have along life ahead of you so dont sit around waiting for him if its going to happen it will happen no matter. so have fun
2007-01-15 17:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, if he is off to college chances are he is going to hook up with someone else. The same for you, eventually some guy is going to catch your eye and you will be tired of staying home and then it is over.
2007-01-15 17:04:48 · answer #5 · answered by Briandking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to concentrate on your studies and stop worrying about a boy who's not interested in you. You have a serious problem with English grammar. Work on that.
2007-01-15 17:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense, but im a guy, and guys act kinda flirty even if they dont like a girl. if hes some random guy that u dnt c THAT often, just tell him u like him. whats the worst that cood happen? he says he doesnt like u. theres plenty more guys.
2007-01-15 17:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by adam c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really liked you, he would make a move. I think you should just let it be and if it happens it happens, if it doesn't then it doesnt. There's plenty of fish in the sea, don't wait around for this one.
2007-01-15 17:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by lulula123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really wont know if you dont ask him. Just give him a call and tell him you like him, and ask him how he feels about you.
2007-01-15 17:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by Layla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he acts like he likes you then he probably does. In my opinion, I wouldn't pursue it since he's gone to college.
2007-01-15 17:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by Lara Croft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in touch but keep it casual. Don't be making phone calls to him. So long as he answers and stays in contact with you, you'll know. If he doesn't, you'll also know.
2007-01-15 17:04:11 · answer #11 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋