He answered his phone and hung up. Told me they had the wrong number and I never heard him say " you have the wrong num. so I questioned him and he persisted on telling me they had the wrong num. so I called the num back and she told me her name and when I asked who she was he told me "the truth is, I dated her b/4 we got back together." ?????
2007-01-15 08:54:23 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
new attitudes etc, but u have already busted him why do u need a top ten list of how do you know when u already know
use the force luke
2007-01-15 08:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by wolfchat_2005 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) Interest in new underwear is one indicator.
2) A sudden change in appearance or behavior.
3) Time that is unaccounted for.
Ask him suggestive questions that might make him nervous, even if it's not true, something like "is there any reason I might have seen you hanging out with another girl?" Watch his reaction carefully. If he leans away from you or puts a barrier between you and him (even something minor, like a set of keys or folded arms), that's a good indicator of deceit.
Before you let him know you're on his trail, read a book called "Never Be Lied To Again: How to Get the Truth In 5 Minutes Or Less In Any Conversation Or Situation" by David Leiberman (I think). It's pretty inexpensive and extremely effective.
If you let him know your suspicions, your chance of any getting the truth with the methods described in the book will be lost.
2007-01-15 17:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have proof in front of your face, you will never know if a guy cheats. Today it is hard for men and women to trust but trust is the most important element in a relationship. In order to trust there must be no LYING! If he has nothing to hide then he should have never lied about it being a wrong number. Keep an eye out for him cause just him lying about that makes me think that he is.
2007-01-15 17:01:42 · answer #3 · answered by sassy_italia4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he's lying to you is a good clue. Do you really want to be with someone who won't tell you the truth and is most likely cheating and will continue to cheat on you? When you're sick enough of it, you'll leave . . . and most likely wish you'd left sooner.
2007-01-15 16:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by writerchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, you might want to check the records for his telephone to see if that number shows up. Do you FEEL as though you need to be concerned? That may be as telling as the records. Don't fool yourself by explaining away things that don't seem "right".
2007-01-15 17:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1ST OF ALL TO HELL WITH IF HIS CHEATING OR NOT!
HIS JUST TOLD YOU A LIE FOR GOD SAKE.
that would be enuff for me to be walking now.
what you wanna ask him and yourself is why did he lie about the phone call?
you could try and talk about this and patch things up but then you could end up with problems in the future. ie trust.
what i mean is it could always be in the bk of ur mind, that girl who rang him could she be callin again, whats he doing tonight, is he texting her? then you will start of by looking at his phone etc and becomin a pest and getting insecure then b4 you know it it will all end up going sour, im not trying to make you feel bad but i can see this happening!
i would back off a little bit and see what comes of it, but then again why wait around, if his gonna cheat his gonna do it regardless of what he tells you, i could not stay cos it would always be in the bk of my mind. and bare in mind his already sneaking around by lnot tellin you the truth about the pwrson who called.
2007-01-15 17:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by ice_castles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is going on yep, no reason for that kind of activity. Check the cell phone bill's or get his phone after he goes to sleep and check the history. Bet you find your answers.
2007-01-15 17:00:31 · answer #7 · answered by Briandking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a SERIOUS talk with your man, if I were you!
I mean, it might not be anything more than just friends. I'm friends with one of my exes. But the fact that it was so sketchy is kinda what would be worrying me. I would ask him and you need to brace yourself for what he has to say, just in case it is bad news.
2007-01-15 17:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a cheat, see the thing is, if you dig, you're going to get dirt, my gf cleans my room and found video tapes, and they'were me having sex with my exgf, now that is my business, she destory the tape, later she made a sex tape with me later we broke up, I'm sure my next girlfriend is going to make be destory that tape too and make another one, what the hell is the point of destorying other peoples history? i don't even care, it's just womans brain hurts my logic
2007-01-15 17:00:52 · answer #9 · answered by MiKe Drazen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex from a couple of years ago did the same thing and it turned out he was cheating
2007-01-15 17:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by aaaah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋