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We are living in the 21st century, and travelling from one part of the country to another is easy.
Then, you can talk on the phone,or get a web-cam. The fact your girlfriend is moving isn't the end of the world.

At the moment you're in a bit of a panic, and that's understandable.

Let's say, if you were to commit suicide, it would all be a terrible waste of a life. In a couple of months time, things could change, she may decide she would rather be with you.
Or, after travelling to where she is going to live, you may want to move to that part of the country yourself...

Give it some time, keep in touch with her as often as you can. It may be possible to meet half way when you get together.

Where there's life, there's hope!

Good luck to you both.

Ps, looking at a past question of yours, posted two days ago, I noticed you were wanting to break up with a girl friend; who was totally in love with you.
Excuse me, if I am confused, is this a different girl? Sorry that's a question, not and answer.

2007-01-17 03:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

SUICIDE PREVENTION

Suicide & Crisis Hotline 1-800-999-9999 Help for Troubled Teens

National Hope Line Network 1-800-784-2433 Suicide Prevention

http://usminc.org/links.html

2007-01-15 18:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by The Notorious Doctor Zoom Zoom 6 · 0 0

PLEASE DO NOT!!! If you are feeling like you may hurt yourself, or especially if you are actually planning to, you should call 911 immediately instead. You will be able to speak to someone who cares, that can advise you & put you in touch w/ a professional. Or at least, call someone or tell someone, a friend, a family member. By asking for help, you are not being weak, you are making a wise choice!

I would say most everyone probably thinks of suicide at one time or another, especially when they are feeling really sad, or when things look really hopeless, or when they have come to the end of their rope & their coping skills are no longer working. Loosing someone that you care about is good reason to feel sad & to feel just plain bad! So you are not alone or crazy if you feel this way. Please ask for help. By asking your question here, you have taken a step toward that. Do not give up.

2007-01-15 09:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by SamB12 3 · 1 0

Take a deep breath, take a nap, and regroup. NO person is worth losing YOUR life over. EVER. You're just feeling exceptionally low right now. Tomorrow will be another day and then you'll have another day after that, and so on, and eventually the feelings will subside. In the mean time, talk it out with friends, write your feelings down, eat some chocolate (it will make you feel better, HONEST!), and do some stuff to take your mind off of it.

2007-01-15 08:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 1 0

You hang in there and move on. You'll find new friends.

National Suicide Hotlines USA
United States of America
Toll-Free / 24 hours a day / 7 days a week
1-800-SUICIDE* 1-800-273-TALK
1-800-784-2433* 1-800-273-8255
1-800-799-4TTY (4889)
Deaf Hotline

2007-01-15 09:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ ☆ StarLiteGrl~98☼1 ☆ ♥ 7 · 1 0

Think about all the people who you would devastate. It hurts man, I know, it happened to me. I couldnt eat for a month, and all I did was cry half the time.

Everything happens for a reason, your soul mate will find you, and whatever you felt for this girl, you'll feel 100x more. Stick it out honey, it hurts, but there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

Talk about it with one of your trusted friends, suicide is not the way. How would she feel if she found out? You would kill her too.

If you need to talk, I can be a faceless ear for you to use hun
my_name_is_chris_chriss@yahoo.com

2007-01-15 09:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by X-tina 3 · 0 0

Call a suicide hotline. They would have a lot better answers than any of us. I thought I'd die when I lost my first love, and I still have a special place in my heart for him. With time it will all get easier, and better. You're young and kinda lost right now. Give it time, if she feels the same about you, she will contact you. Don't hurt everyone who loves you. Or leave a void in everyone's hearts. As long as your heart is beating there is always hope and another day, and maybe another girl.

2007-01-15 09:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by rsmry_phllps 2 · 0 0

all this cause of one girl? were you thinking this way before you met said girl? think about it life was fine before she came into your life and it can go as good after she has been gone for a week or two, don't give up because of this there's more women out there and you never know there may be a woman out there that can fill the void and may even make you a king. there is many rocks in our paths and I will not allow one woman to end it all, come on life isn't that bad. look around you have friends that care and you would cheat them out of having you around? go buy a half gallon of your favorite ice cream and eat as much as you can. you'll feel better after wards

2007-01-15 14:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by RANDY S 2 · 0 0

come on Tyler, just because your best girl has moved dose´t give you the right to kill yourself what would you gain from that, okay it hurt´s, it hurt´s a lot , but think about all the people who love you think about how they would feel if you were to take your live away from them. I´m sure you can still be best mates with your best friend after all even if you are not together as partners you are still friends Live and enjoy your life with all your family and friends who love and care for you

2007-01-15 09:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Suicide is not a joke. My boyfreind and first love moved across country. I thought we were never to see each other again. We ended up married six years later.
We just celebrated 25 years.
What is meant to be is.
Have a cry, and let it go. It's not the end, just the next chapter.

2007-01-15 09:03:10 · answer #10 · answered by Pat B 3 · 0 0

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