would you do under age sex my bf is ready and i think i am but we are under age what shell we do go for it or wait he only has a year to wait but i have a few
2007-01-15 08:53:28 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should wait, dont want to get into trouble and there is no need to rush.
2007-01-15 08:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by Cool Dude 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
If I was to say to you .You have only about all being well 85 years left .Go for it now .or next year .You would think I was a nutter.But that is what you are saying in a round about way.You must be 100% sure not 99% but 100% When you do it .Do not go with the flow At least do not do it under 16 years old I know its fashionable to day under age sex .But really you know it is not right .Otherwise would you be asking your question?the answer must be NO NO NO .If your BF thinks well of you he will wait if he loves you he will wait for the next 10 years
2007-01-15 09:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, you are either ready or you are not. The fact that you have had to ask on here (in my mind) makes me think that you are not ready. If you truly do care about each other then you will have no problem waiting a few years, and if your boyfriend isn't happy about this then TRUST ME, he isn't worth it. The worst thing you could do is think that you are ready to lose your virginity, then go through with it and realise you've made a mistake.
If you do decide you are ready then don't forget contraception!
2007-01-15 09:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by Pickle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it's a good idea. There is an age restriction for reasons. What if you were to get pregnant? I hope he is not pressuring you, he may be and you don't realise it. I don't want to patronise you as you have your own thoughts and feelings and many young people are sensitive to it. Just think of what you would be getting yourself into wait for the right time and person. It will be worth the wait.
2007-01-15 11:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by itgirl23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't but I'm 39, and that's just sick ;-)
I don't know, I'm guessing you are 13, and I can't see anything good coming from it. Neither of you are mature enough, and it sounds like he wants to, but you're not sure. Why does he want to? Because he loves you? NO! Sorry, he wants to, because he want to try it, and you're at the front of the queue! All his mates are lying to him and saying they've all done it and he doesn't want to get left behind.
This comes down to you, if you are interested in becoming sexually active, because you enjoy the sensation, you currently masturbate, and love it, then you do it for you, but if you have not really shown much interest do date, and it's him going "go on, go on, go on..." then I think you should tell him to get stuffed. He's 15 and he wants his end away, and he will try every last trick in the book to get you to do it with him, but he's not old enough to have genuine affection for you, and to have your interests above his.
This can't be about what he wants, it has to be what you want. And it's only physical, it will not help your relationship, it will not make him love you, it will not do anything other than lose you your virginity and give him bragging rights with his mates.
If you understand that and you still want to do it....
2007-01-15 09:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is it a bout teen this days, they can't wait to have sex, if you love one another you must wait a few more years tell your ready, i mean finish school, get a job, your own place, and the must important this is the education, what if you get prognat, the will stop you from doing a lots, you know what i mean.
take care do not rush things
2007-01-19 04:09:47 · answer #6 · answered by badboyisawickedman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please wait, the age limit is there for a reason. I have 3 kids, a boy of 15, and two girls aged 13 and 11, and i am dreadin it when this time comes, I hope I have instilled in them that 16 and no younger is the age to have sex, I know up to now that nothing has happened , but please wait until you are mature enough, as it is a big step.
2007-01-15 09:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by tizzy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe the government has no right to tell anyone what age they should be having sex its when u r comfortable and ready, if u r u should do it if u want to
2007-01-15 10:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only considered "under age sex" if one of the partys is an adult and the other isnt...since you dont understand that I would say wait.
2007-01-15 09:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have 'a few years to wait' but think you're ready?
I may sound like an old foggie here but honestly, you are not ready.
2007-01-15 09:44:06 · answer #10 · answered by NM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i understand where ur coming from, yes its for for u to think about planning it. Be aware that it is underage and this is a law which is brocken if u do it. 1 year is not 2 much to wait for :) i would say wait
2007-01-15 09:00:21 · answer #11 · answered by bunnyBoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋