I need help, with love?

Question

i realy like this girl i have known her since last september, we get on realy well. but she knows i fancie her and i think she likes me but i dont think she knows how serious i am. i havent told her directly how much i feel about her, but i wrote a e-mail she hasnt read it yet though, i asked her wether we could be more than just freinds, but i have a sudden urge just to tell her everything about how i fell about her when i see her but, i just cant bring my self to do it, just from embarrasment, what should i do? i dont want the girl of my dreams to not be mine because a stupid thing called fear. help:(

Answer 1

I recommend you don't go blurting things out as it sounds like you haven't really developed the relationship enought first. To do this you have to make sure she's also attracted to you - well is she? The next thing you have to do is make sure she feels comfortable when you're around.

What it sounds like from where I'm sitting is you've disappeared into a romantic reverie and the chances are she's probably wondering why you keep staring at her like a doofus.

Make friends, be smooth, be cheeky, tease her a bit and seduce her romantically. But don't be blurting sh1t out like Jim Carey's Dumb and Dumber character "I desperately want to make love to a schoolboy" - remember that line?

I guarantee if you go woosy sh'll be gone in a shot.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear.
~Ambrose Redmoon

Remember that your fear is standing in the way. Don't you want to know? Instead of always what if? Even if you fail, you have to remember that you shoot for the moon, if you fall your among the stars. Also you have to love deep and hurt deep they go hand and hand, even through the storm we see a rainbow...Right?
blessings~

Answer 4

youve known her since september get it on or get it over with start out simple ask her out as a friend something one on one like a sport for two like squash or babminton you can have fun and conversation whilst keeping fit followed by a drink in the bar and get to know her what every you choose to ask her to do with you make sure its something new to you then that way you can say youve want to get into this activity for a while and need a part to play with

Answer 5

Well, you said it...not me. If you let fear take over like you said, you are going to regret it big time. It's okay to be scared, but you have to get her before some one else does. Just take a deep breathe and go at it. If she reads this e~mail and finds out like that, she may not respond well, so you need to tell her face to face. You never know....she may like you more than you think she does, and she may know that you are very serious, just waiting on you to approach her. Like I said, don't let fear take over your life. You will never live if you let fear take over.

Answer 6

don't let the fear beat you i was the same one time i liked this lad for 3 years till i told the lad i how i felt and he told me he felt the same make sure the girl dose like you and if she dose go for it as the saying goes the hardest thing to do is watch the one you love love someone else
good luck!!

Answer 7

writ her an email or make up a song or poem somthin lik tat

Answer 8

nike: just do it. tell her your feelings, just get close to her and force it out of yourself. the hardest part is getting started! just be TRUTHFUL and don't leave anything out. best to do this in private. gl mate

Answer 9

..you need to "speak" to her..NOT EMAIL.....if you don't tell her how you feel...someone else will tell her how they feel...and she will be with them..l...(trust me...)...

Answer 10

sex