=...( oh god please help...I talk to my friends but i always feel as if im doing something wrong....i always feel that im annoying because whenever i try to stay away from talking i can't... im just worried that they will all dissapear on me. please i need advice on what to do this is all tearing me apart. ill talk about anything random thing but idk.i feel as if im slipping away. please advice.
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everyday...i feel as if it's getting harder and harder to say things i keep trying to hold on i do! but it seems to me the harder i try im clenching,grasping,holding on with my fists.i keep squeezing but i feel so weak i give up. will anything ever be the same i wish my personality would just refresh.
2007-01-15 08:42:42 · 11 answers · asked by cass b 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
i don't have the time
2007-01-15 08:51:34 · update #1
social anxiety..you need to go to a psychologist. good luck.
2007-01-15 08:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two things that I would suggest as motivators. The first is an understanding in many cultures - the principle of we were given two ears and one mouth so we should speak no more than half as much as we listen. The second is to refer you to some old writings from a wise man - Solomon. See the books of Proverbs and Ecclesiastes (older testament - biblical)
2007-01-15 16:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by Keko 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you need someone to talk to IM me or email me on my profile. I know how it is to get so nervous you think you will explode. I a not judgemental - atleast I try not to be and my friends say I do well. I hope you feel better. Try taking some deep breathes, or take a bath. Just get away fro your problems for a minute. Unclench your teeth, it hurts. :)
2007-01-15 16:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by yay_boxes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cass,why are you beating yourself up,you sound like a great person a caring person and a wonderful friend....you are being so hard on yourself ,because you feel you are doing something wrong and you are annoying.....my friend you are so sad too...if you feel this way ,when you are with your friends do they tell you these things or are you just insecure with you,because if they make you that uncomfortable then they are not true friends...Cass you need to stop doing this to yourself ....A true friend is a friend for life if they go they are not deserving of your friendship.....always remember you need to love yourself and be proud of who you are I know in my heart just by your question you are a very special person, I know this ,but does Cass know this....learn to accept who you are and love who you are ....and be good to you and take care of you first......bless you and please take care of you ......luv kara
2007-01-15 17:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a psychologist they can help you get to the root of your problem, try and relax (I know it's very hard) and seek professional help.
2007-01-15 16:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone to talk to, anyone, a friend, a psycologist, someone. Don't do anything crazy.
2007-01-15 16:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by maddiesmom982001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you seeing a doctor about this? I hope you are, because a good psychologist or psychiatrist can help you. Please see someone as soon as you can.
2007-01-15 16:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by istitch2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get counseling as soon as possible, hang in there.
2007-01-15 16:52:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your family first and tell them how you feel. or you could talk to school counselor or your doctor..
2007-01-15 17:12:00 · answer #9 · answered by wonder woman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie...please get some help.
2007-01-15 16:47:59 · answer #10 · answered by LolaCorolla 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋