Ok heres the deal.....My bf and I we have sex. I like and enjoy having sex too. But I also prefer to get pleased in another, southern, area. What can I do to make him go down there before we do the deed?
2007-01-15 08:11:59 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This has nothing to do with anal.
2007-01-15 08:19:58 · update #1
And he already goes down there but not as often as I like.
2007-01-15 08:20:19 · update #2
Yes I do down on him almost everyday. I love doing it.
2007-01-15 08:21:39 · update #3
Just tell him. Say you want to get banged like a barn yard animal, and he'll get the message ;)
2007-01-15 08:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Offer to go down on him more if he will do the same for you. Or do "69" at the same time.
Ask him why he doesn't prefer to. Hopefully he will be brutally honest. If it's an "odor" maybe you can freshen up or put some good smelling stuff down there to intice him (not trying to insult - just brainstorming here).
Put on a porno movie and get him to agree that ya'll will act out everything in the scenes. Chances are the guy in the flick will go down on the movie, so you can get yours that way.
It's nice that you are comfortable with your sexuality. Do be careful, though, and try not to make a baby before you're ready. Other than that... enjoy!!!!!!!
2007-01-15 08:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by gabound75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't need any encouragement...I thoroughly enjoy going down on girls. But I suppose its not every guy's thing...and even some women I've encountered are too self-conscious to enjoy it, or don't like it for whatever reason. Do you go down on him? I would imagine that this guy would have already gone down on you, or at least tried, if it was something he wanted to do. The most effective solution may be the easiest...why not just talk to him about it. Ask him! And if you are already blowing him, its only fair that he's returning the favor.
2007-01-15 08:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that you do not mind going down on your bf,I can not imagine why he would not be willing to do that for you if you ask him to...(personally,It's just about my fav thing in the world !!!) I usually give my partner 2 or 3 orgasms that way before we REALLY get down to business !!
Your problem is most likely that you are not properly communicating with each other.Try getting a book or video on that subject and sharing it together,then when you get to a part that really turns you on,tell him "lets try that..." You may also want to try putting jelly,chocolate syrup,or flavored body oils in certain areas to encourage licking...
2007-01-15 08:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just flat out tell him what you like. Communication is key. Ask him why he hasn't done that yet. If he still won't go down on you and won't learn to do the things you like, do the same thing back to him. He has to learn one way or another! Also, being able to talk about such personal things can bring the two of you closer. Good luck!
2007-01-15 08:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by fastcarceo25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask him about it. You've got to make sure he's comfortable with the idea first. Tell him it is something you'd like to try, and let him think about it at a time when you are out doing something else...this way there is no pressure. The best way to get what you want in any situation is to speak up...good luck!!
2007-01-15 08:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by Destiny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that what is good for the goose is also good for the ganer! In other words if he wants you to go down there then you expect the same in return! Foreplay is the major part of love making and it should be plesing for the both of you.
2007-01-15 08:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by sasy_tabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This answer is relevant if you give him head regularly.If so then its quite simple,just tell him you will not give him head unless he goes down on you,trust me if he is anything like a normal sex loving guy this will work.When he agrees then make sure you are nice and clean down there,shave your beaver unless of course he likes a bushy snatch.
Best of luck.
2007-01-15 08:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by ytee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe just ask, lol. how will he know what you want if you don't tell him? why don't girls figure that one out on their own???? It's not like we get a manual for each girlfriend we might ever have. Give the guy some clues!!! In fact, the heck with the clues, just tell him!!
2007-01-15 08:16:26 · answer #9 · answered by Mike G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a 2 way street honey......,you better be honing the bone too.....fair is fair.............Try to shave down there and ask to 69,...that should do it.If its not his thing to "eat out" then live with it or get a new bf.I know alot of guys who dont like it,...but most do.
2007-01-15 08:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋