My boyfriend wants to have sex with me BADLY. He really likes me and I really like him too but I'm not ready for sex yet. And I'm also starting to think he only likes me because I have big boobs. I mean I'm struggling with a size 32 I right now. You probably get my point. And since he sleeps with me when I'm getting ready for bed he says "Hey baby, wanna have sex tonight?" and every time I say yes (I don't want to hurt him) and more and more times I have to make up an excuse. But today I'm actually feeling bad about it and I'm nervous because I don't want him to come onto me and say that again, because another problem is his friend. I LOVE his friend. I like him more than my boyfriend. I want to have sex with him because he never calls me sexy or hot. He talked to me privately and said he loved me and that I was beautiful. I hugged him and said I love you too. I'm having a party at my house tonight and we're playing that 7 minutes in heaven game. How can I avoid my boyfriend??? HELP!
2007-01-15 08:11:24 · 14 answers · asked by Catherine M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh and by the way... I'M 16! It's my little sisters birthday! She's 13... And I'm ready to have sex with his friend because I like him more...
2007-01-15 08:31:16 · update #1
Ok... I'm in the 5th grade, I hate being called names and stuff like that. I'm only 10. I have grown up friends and a brother who use my Yahoo. This question was posted by one of them. And don't be a *****. Yes I'm 10 and I swear. I like Jay. I saw a monkey having sex in a tree one time. My friends use this so I don't know what they write until they write it. There. Have your answers moron.
2007-01-17 11:39:05 · update #2
just tell him that ur not ready i may be only 13 but trust me on this! i have had sex twice in my life trust me u want to give ur viganty if ur a vigaran just tell him ur not ready. trust me saying no is eaiser then facking it.
2007-01-15 08:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by Kallee n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that you need to come clean to your bf and let him know how you're feeling. If you don't tell him he won't know and can't do anything about it. And as far as your feelings for his friend go, I would make a decision and do it quick. If the two of you really have feelings for each other then break it off w/ your bf otherwise if things happen between his friend and you behind his back he will really be hurt. If you tell him now how things are he may feel hurt for a little while, but if you wait until after something happens he'll also feel betrayed by both of you.
2007-01-15 16:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1). you have a boyfriend and you're not ready for sex with him? then, you need to break up. don't stay w/ someone because they are pressuring you to do something you don't want. simple.
2). wait until yhou've broken up with the boyfriend before contacting the friend
3). don't do anything with the friend after you breakup with male #1. just remain friends w/ the friend.
4). you don't say how old you are, but .. if you're playing a 7 minutes in heaven game, i'd say junior high school. which then leads me to say this ... don't do anything, because you're too young to understand the ramifications from your actions.
5). all actions have consequences. are you ready to pay for yours?
2007-01-15 16:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by gypsysoul52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to your boyfriend that his constantly telling you you're "sexy" and "hot" DO NOT do it for you. Also, I think you should break it off since you're in love with his friend and his friend also feels the same way about you and tells you you are beautiful rather than things you don't enjoy being called. You're not going to be happy giving yourself to someone you don't love so DON'T DO IT! Tell your boyfriend it's over because you don't enjoy how he treats you and you prefer someone else. Good luck!
2007-01-15 16:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell the truth. You would hurt them more if it does not come out from you.
On the sex issue, if you think you ready enough just be responsible for anything that might happen.
Good luck!
2007-01-15 21:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by OIO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please get real.
1) In this question you are 16 and deciding if you want sex.
In other questions you state: (in your profile)
2) that you are pregnant and love how big they make your boobies
3) you are in 5th Grade and dont like th nickname "Tater Tot"
4) that you love sex and love guys that love sex
I and others would love to answer your questions, but make sure you are real here and not just talking to hear yourself.
2007-01-16 09:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by KB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the sex thing is easy just tell him your not ready but........ i think you should break up with him because you dont really like him as well as the other guy so you should be fair to yourself and your boyfriend
good luck and who knows maybe youll end up in heaven with the other guy lol
2007-01-15 16:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you def. need to grow up. you dont avoid your boyfriend. and only kids play 7 mins in heaven. You are just sad... not ready for sex but want to have sex with his friend... you are sad... grow up little girl!
2007-01-15 16:23:06 · answer #8 · answered by I_caught_fire 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its really simple if you are not ready tell him the truth. Good luck in all you do!
2007-01-15 16:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come clean with the boyfriend!
2007-01-15 16:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki-Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋