does anyone know what i should do?

Question

i have liked this boy who goes to my school for a while, we are friends but nothing more im always nice to him but he isnt interested. he is more of a bad boy and im good. i know that i need to get over him but i cant. i see him everyday and i dont know how to get over him and find someone else who i actually have something in common with and who will like me as much as i like him any suggestions would be cool thanks!

Answer 1

Hey Elle (",)
I know exactly how you feel! Was the same... My advice to you is to carry on being nice to him, have your day dreams, enjoy it... And if you are a bit like me, even though you good, you may have a side to you thats quite flirtatious... dont be afraid to flirt! Its fun and harmless. And even try step over your shyness and stare at him... when he looks at you, hold his gaze for a few seconds. Just enjoy your friendship, either he will end up liking you, or you may find someone else. Oh, beware, sometimes when you actually find someone, you like and they like you, a whole lot of guys will come running to sweep you off your feet at once, to try pry you away from him!... Then you have to choose, dont be like me who ended up with 3guys hanging around me wanting my every attention- although, if that happens ENJOY IT, it may never happen again! Have fun, Njoy teenage life (im guessing u there) but still be as responsible as possible. Cheers sweetie

Answer 2

Hi, I know how it can disrupt your sense of self when the boys dont always pick up on our signals. But there is a sign he may like you is he still talks to you. I would say being older and watching boys/men interact with us girls-it is never the same signals. I would bet he does like you-most of the times boys dont come out and say anything-do you have any friends who know his friends? Maybe you could nicely ask one of them to find out if he talks to his friends about the two of you..who knows with boys, they hardly communicate the way girls do.

I wouldnt worry about having to forget him. I think once you take a deep breathe and dont stress if you dont get over him, you may find it easier to figure out a plan to reach your goal.

How do you know you guys have nothing in common? I am just assuming as you didnt say if you 2 talked about it or not..if maybe you could talk to him abit-ask what he likes-and see if he asks questions about you? Or find something you both like-you may be suprised that there may be something you both havent done yet and would like to do...any type of outdoor activities, gaming or other activities...sometimes we learn things about ourselves when we try new things with other people.

I know this is true for myself, I may not have been interested in a particular thing and then when I have a chance to try it with someone, I may actually find a new thing to do.

I hope this helps.

Answer 3

Sweetheart you have a huge crush and those are hard to get over. Be his good friend and enjoy the time ya'll have when ya'll are hanging out. Maybe someday it will be more, and just b/c he is a bad boy doesnt mean it cant work. Just go with the flow and see where time makes you end up.

Answer 4

ask some friends for advise. but i will give u some.

i'd had the same problem not to long ago but my friends helped me with it. i totally got over him.my friends made a quiz for everyone to take even girls that way no one would think it was to get a boy. it had questions about personalitys what you like and alot of different things like that it helped me find the right guy to get my mind off him. i found someone whose answers matched mine perfectly. ever since then we've been we've been together forever(me and the person i picked).

Answer 5

it might take a while to get over this. but when your read, start looking around for some guys you might be interested in. once you find one or two, talk to them. Be friends with them. that's the best way to start. Then see what happens ;)

Answer 6

Well how do u know he doesnt like you? just because u 2 are different doesnt mean he doesnt like u.. opposite do attract u know? lol hmm if u havent chilled w/ him.. try to chill w/ him.. go to the movies.. maybe he'll make a move on u? in school ur in front of alot of people and guys usually shy up u know? so i say try hangin out w/ him outta side of school.. if he doesnt like u.. remeber someone else probably does so just keep your opinions open =)

Answer 7

girl, i had well have the same problem. i really like this guy and i went out with him but then he hurt me really bad. i still like him but everytime i see him it brings back th egood memories what i do is tell myself he doesnt deserve me and with you if he cant see what a great girl you are hes not worth you liking him. there's other people out ther it will just take some time, for both of us. lol. i hope you get through this if you ever need some one to talk to im here. but to me i think the best person to talk to is your mom. i no it sounds stupid but sadly its the truth.

Answer 8

you know he is a bad boy, someone headed for trouble with the law, somebody who will be unable to support himself unless he steals things and sells crack, and you cannot tear your self away? oh, my poor kitten. you are too weak to continue on. just give up althogether and runaway with this wanna be gangsta and reap what you sow. you too can be a crack ho and mising all your teeth and in and out of jail and unable to even remember his name in no time at all. you are not responsible. you have not had the breaks other kids have. you should act on any strong impulse you happen to feel. lol

Answer 9

I'm sure he is interested. what you should do is stop being scared and go put o him and kiss him. even if he is not into you, he will for sure like the kiss. and if not then you can tell yourself how bad the kiss was and that you dint want to be with him anyways.

Answer 10

If he's bad and you know this then you are dumb to get involved. Volunteer and find a better set of friends.