Okay, I have a question regarding something that a woman might say to break up with someone. Lets say you have a three year relationship with someone. You are very close. You practically lived together. You were always enjoying each other's time. If you did argue then it wasn't something you couldn't resolve the same day. Then the person, surprisingly, breaks up with you and says "I don't know why. I woke up this morning and just felt it was something I had to do." Now, what would you think that means?
2007-01-15 08:06:25 · 9 answers · asked by achristian520 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it means exactly what she says it means, but I think she's kidding herself if she really thinks she came to a decision just like that. Perhaps she hasn't been happy for a while but couldn't put her finger on why, or everything just clicked into place and she realised she had to end the relationship. It's a strange way of explaining it and I bet quite hurtful for the other person, but it must be something like that.
2007-01-15 08:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by amazingtessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt that someone would just wake up one morning and feel that it is the right thing to do, it has obviously been plaguing on this person's mind for some time. Since the person never stated a reason, it could be that feelings are very confused right now, or they might be attracted to someone else and unsure as to whether they should pursue that attraction....
2007-01-15 16:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by ForeverAnAngel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have had enough it has come to the end and there is nothing left in the relationship anymore for them and they think its time to move on and try other things it would have probably been at the back of her mind for a while and something like the arguement would have triggerd it off and made the final desicion to end it
2007-01-15 16:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by Elle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it means.. that while the relationship was good, and had no real problem.. but that other person realizes that its not right for them. There is no obvious reasons to point out, so they can't really explain it to you. Their just no happy anymore with the relationship. That's my guess anyways. Good luck!
2007-01-15 16:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by CEP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She had been thinking about it for a while and finally got up the nerve to spill it to you.
The relationship either got boring, or she was getting nervous about what it was turning into.
She has probably found another person who has tweaked her interest, and wanted to go for it, with know strings attached.
That's my opinion for what its worth.
2007-01-15 16:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by liquidblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows. It could me that you're not giving her what she wants. It could be that you're giving her to much of what she wants. It could be she met someone else. It could be anything.
I'd move on. If a girl breaks it off with me I don't even look back. I clean up my life and move on. Good luck.
2007-01-15 16:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by albion53151 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they were probably thinking it for a while. that's not the type of thing you just wake up one morning and decide to do all of a sudden. that's bull
2007-01-15 16:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by Estelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's had this feeling bottled up for a while. Maybe then she just had the courage to tell you.
2007-01-15 16:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they want a change.
2007-01-15 16:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by fhockeeshortee28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋