I really like this guy on my brother's wrestling team. He's in 10th grade and I'm in 8th. He's really nice, sweet, and funny. And, I know I don't have a chance with him, but I really like him. And don't you dare tell me, "Make the first move. Talk to him. Be friends with him." HE DOESN"T KNOW I EXSIST!!!!!
2007-01-15 08:00:59 · 18 answers · asked by mighty_bull_straw 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make him notice you
talk to him all the time
but not like a bother
but like cute, tell him how he looked really great today doing his move on the mat
and wink at him, flip your hair, smile and stuff
and make sure you BUMP into him so you have to stop and say OH sorry, but wow your real strong....giggle ..and he should say something and then just take it from there..
do not take no for an answer
also have your brother mention to him about his great sister ( but only after you have broken the ice and got him talking to you)
good luck
smile
2007-01-17 12:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if a guy doesn't know you exist... YOU NEED 2 MAKE YOURSELF KNOWN!! ... How else do you expect a guy to notice you? Do you attempt to talk to him? Do you give him "THE EYES"...?? Everyone has the slightest chance... I thought I never had the chance with my boyfriend (been with him 3years now :] ) and I had to make the first move. Definately attempt to talk to him and see how it goes. IF you don't feel comfortable going up to him and chatting away then how in the HELL do you think you could date him? Send a friend to him first to feel him out ... definately she/he could talk to this guy you like and see what they think about you and if he's a no go you wont' feel embarrassed by putting yourself out there. ANYWAYS just don't sit back and wait for him to come to you cuz more than likely it won't work!!!
2007-01-15 16:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by sweetsuezq4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you make it very hard to answer this question with the whole "And don't you dare tell me, "Make the first move. Talk to him. Be friends with him." thing. but honestly that might not be the thing to do. you do have to talk to him like it or not. although the thing you really need to do is to make him notice you and realize that you do exist. i am not saying to put yourself out there like a protitue but to make him want you. then and only then do you have a real chance at this whole relationship.
2007-01-15 16:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To start off with answering:
It might be better to -
Go slow... Don't be obvious...
Question... What does your brother think of this?
Allot of times the older brother/sister will try to protect the youngest. Or say that there might be an "age" problem?
Allot has to do with "maturity".
There is still lots of time... don't try to rush it. For maybe?
He will either notice you or he won't.
For now.... Go with the "flow".
Enjoy Life, Friends & Family... Because ... before you realize it... you'll be out of school and probably be going to college.
Who knows? You might have another waiting ... who's hoping that you might see him?
The Old Dawg : )
2007-01-15 16:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by Old Dawg 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are just a Kid in his eyes. You have a crush which you need to get over. When you are in highschool, perhaps he will notice you. Right now you are his brother's sister and therefore off limits.
If you are still unconvinced, talk wtih your brother and see what he has to say...just be prepared for him to poke fun at you since that's what brothers do best!
2007-01-15 16:04:27 · answer #5 · answered by D N 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your like 12 what is this. obviously hes in 10th grade and doesnt want anything to do with you. he doesnt you know you exsist for a reason.
2007-01-15 16:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by Five S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make a point that u exsist and kinda flirt but don't look like it that wot i did w/ my older cuz's friend and he checked me out more then once!!!
2007-01-15 16:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by Kallee n 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start tlkin 2 him get 2 no him then ask him if he feels the way u do about him coz he could luk sweet but he might not b.
trust me i have experience
gud luk!
2007-01-15 16:04:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you took all my answers. But older guy???? ask this question when you are seeing someone 15 years older than you, then you can talk about older guy.
2007-01-15 16:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by trisha_r_c 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he dosn't know you exist then let it go. You're too young to worry about this stuff.
2007-01-15 16:04:33 · answer #10 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋