i have been with my boyfriend for a month now and i am starting to have second thoughts. i am starting to like this way older, but more appealing guy and i dont know if this is just some stupid reason to have drama in my life or if i really want to breakup with my boyfriend. i really need good advice!
2007-01-15 07:58:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this other guy is a senior at a different school, i am a freshman. my boyfriend is in my grade but 2 years older than me.
2007-01-15 08:00:55 · update #1
Break up with your boyfriend, then don't get another one till your at least 25. You need to grow up.
2007-01-15 08:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by Interested 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass is not always greener on the other side. You need to think twice about the choice you make. The older guy may not respect you as well as your boyfriend since he is on a different level than you...i mean he's a senior and you're a freshman...Think about what's best for you, and who you would have more in common with..You could lose something really special..
2007-01-15 16:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by cutegirlin_tn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have only been with your boyfriend a month, and you are having second thoughts, you just might be realizing that he isn't the right guy for you. Highschool is a great time to figure out who you like and what types of guys appeal to you. Don't settle and don't tie yourself down so early....as for this other guy you think you might like. I think you should hang out with him, as friends, and see if you really have feelings for him or if you just think he's cute. You will have many crushes in your life, but most of them just stay crushes and thats okay! You also have to think, this senior guy you like, will probably graduate and either get a job or go to college and might not have time for you later. I'd say be single, be with your friends, and enjoy life!!! You'll find someone perfect for you when you aren't even looking!
2007-01-15 16:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by GreenEyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Well first of all is this older guy you like worth it? I mean yes he may have good looks to you but is he nice to you? Or do you even really know him? I think that this question is one that you would have to find out on your own. If you break up with your boyfriend he probably would just think that you ditched him for another guy. Which you are basically doing. But i dont see why you need to ditch your boyfriend. I mean yea the other guy may be hotter and older but arnt you happy with what you have now? I think that you are just going to have to think this one threw. If i was you i would defently stick with my old boyfriend. I mean to me it seems like you dont even know that senior guy. But hey what can i say? Instead of it being actions speak louder than words it should be actions speack louder than looks. And thats true. You should always like a guy for who he is not for what he looks like. Just always keep that in mind.
2007-01-15 16:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by Julie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...
1. You have only been with this dude for a month! That is not that long you won't break his heart. Just move on to the next guy, just don't cause drama.
2. Break up with the one you have right now just for the simple fact he is in your grade but two years old, what a dumb a**!
2007-01-15 16:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jules Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does this older guy likes you for you, not because he thinks you're fresh meat? It could be a little crush. Think about what will happen when he graduates and moves on to college, with all those loose college girls. Will he still be with you then? I suggest staying with your boyfriend now.
2007-01-15 16:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm that suck... well your young.. so why dont u not have a bf? but go on a date w/ both guys.. see who u like more... or treats u better? maybe u can sugguest to have an open relationship...like u 2 are bf and gf.. BUT u can go on dates w/ other people? see what happens
2007-01-15 16:05:02 · answer #7 · answered by Chitownshottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one month is a short time in a relationship to attach for couples. i think u should give time to yourself. as you share more things with ur boyfriend you will be able to decide the best thing for u.
2007-01-15 16:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by whatsoever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart honey cuz you only live once and you dont wanna be questioning your self 5yrs from now wondering what could of happend
2007-01-15 16:04:24 · answer #9 · answered by da 1 u ♥ 2 hate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me you already know what to do
you need to break it off NOW!
just do it
good luck
smile
2007-01-15 19:22:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋