i'm so inlove with this guy,it's been about 3 yrs since we've been loving each other...but,i wanna stop loving him.i want to lose my feelings and be insesnsitive about it.i am not joking,maybe there is a way? what should i do to stop feeling for him?he's far away and we can't see each other.but we,as it seems,still love each other.but i don't wanna hope too much and make dreams about it.i wanna stop feeling,please help me! any tips or advices,anything!
2007-01-15 07:51:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anna V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow seems like your in some deep doodoo try dating other guys or getting feelings for other guys so you can stop thinking about him
2007-01-15 07:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by butterfly girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all why do you want to stop having feelings for this guy? If it is not a good relationship then I think you should consider looking in another direction. Keep yourself busy, develop some hobbies or new interests and don't give yourself time to dwell on him or the situation. You may need some professional counseling to help you determine why you are so dependent on this guy.
2007-01-15 15:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by Kathy E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.if there is no hope then why are you holding on to a dream , this is real life and you need to get a grip on reality, or 10 years from now you will be exactly where you are today still wishing and wanting a dream
2007-01-15 15:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats hard. when you love someone it comes naturally. now you can lose your love for him, especially if is a long distance relationship,. tell him how you feel in a nice way. you dont want to hurt him too. hope this helps
2007-01-15 15:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going out with other guys closer to you. if you aren't going out with others, you don't have anyone to compare him to so naturally he seems the best but you may well find someone that is closer and can do things you enjoy, and I don't mean just sex. there is time for you to eventually get together if it is meant to be but there may be someone else you can think about and get along with enough to forget about the first guy.
2007-01-15 15:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start doing things that you like to do for your self . that way you can find yourself and forget about him. keep away from things that remind you of you and him as a couple. get out and meet new people, and explore new and wonderful things . keep your self busy so u dont find yourself wondering about what he is doing with his life.. hope this helps .. good luck.
2007-01-15 16:07:40 · answer #6 · answered by chantee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no secret answer for that question (god i wish there was) time heals, thats about it, we dont have a light switch to turn ourselves on and off with.
2007-01-15 15:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by girliiigirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
strangest request i ever heard,if u arent in control of your own feelings,no one can put u behind the driving wheel,
2007-01-15 15:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by reifguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋