A guy who I thought was a friend slept with me two nights ago.
He said he was off dating online.
Well last night I shared with him that my exBF who lives in another state and is engaged heard thru the grapevine that i had finally had sex with someone else.
New guy had a freak out and said he is drama free.
He then proceeded to delete me as his Myspace friend (so now Im humiliated when my friends see this)
And now he suddenly has an add up on Jdate again.
Wow was he justified to end things this way ?
I know he told his friends about us sleeping together.
Im so upset because he lives in same small town as me and I will run into him many times while Im in public.
Ignore or confront him that I see his personal ad is back up ?
2007-01-15 07:42:34 · 16 answers · asked by lUKE13422 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes an A$$/loser ignore him. so u slept with him...its okay. consider it an experience to learn from.
2007-01-15 07:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him but do it in a nice way. He shouldn't have said anything of you two sleeping together, it's a private thing and not for the ears of the public. He created his own drama by telling. You didn't nothing to get this kind of response and therefore you need not worry about it. Everything that has happened is his fault and when you confront him about it, you need to make him see that he did it to himself.
If after you let him know the true situation and he still doesn't want to be with you, consider it a blessing cause he's not worth the toilet water you flush. He only wanted to get you into bed.
I hope the best for you.
2007-01-15 07:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to look at things from the "new" guys point of view. You 2 had sex and your "ex" finds out about it and says what he did. So now the "new" guy is going to think whatever happens between you and him will get back to your "ex". Telling friends about sleeping together is one thing but your "ex" saying something about it is another. If you like this guy, try talking to him and explaining things. Even try sending him a message through myspace, at least you can tell when and if he reads it. Good Luck
2007-01-15 07:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough call in small towns this happens reguardless of Jdate.
Sadly it sounds more like to me he used this "little bit of drama" to wiggle out of the relationship.
In reality you need to look inside and see what you need for closure. Some people need to just walk away and bury that chapter of their life story, others need the confrontation to justify the encounter.
As much as I wish I could answer the question I really think only you can.
2007-01-15 07:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by TRENT L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's immature. Ignore him on myspace and in town. What a lame reason for not going out with you anymore. He couldn't even handle the mere mention of an ex boyfriend or the fact that he wasn't your first! Rediculous.
2007-01-15 07:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him - but learn from this that you should not bring up the fact that you've kept in contact w/people that are giving you updates on your ex. That might sound to the new guy like you're not over the ex and make him feel like you are using him.
2007-01-15 07:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him, he is not worth you emotional pain, You need to make it seem as if it does not bother you, If you do that it will bother him more. I have been played before, and I thought I needed closure, while I was Trying to get it I almost got my self in trouble for it, So just let it go
2007-01-15 07:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he remains committed to an unique intercourse and love existence with you. If he says confident than carry him to it. If he says no then sell off him and circulate on. until of direction you do not strategies having an open relationship with him and if so then initiate having comparable exciting circumstances your self and enable him be responsive to that if he is going to be non unique you would be able to besides do a similar. finally the two considered one of you would be able to then waft aside and bypass luckily on your guy or woman techniques with new acquaintances and enthusiasts.
2016-10-20 06:02:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definantly ignore him, act like he was the worst sex you have had. That will hurt his ego alot more than u confronting him. Give him the cold shoulder. Don't let him see he had the power to hurt you.
2007-01-15 07:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've read this twice and still can't figure out what's going on.
Regardless, he sounds like a real winner. Ignore him and move on.
2007-01-15 07:52:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anne-Arky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋