I'm with my boyfriend, been with him for 18 months...i'm not happy with him, but i'm not happy without him, i really don't want to break up with him, not with the rubbish i'm going through at the moment either, we've had a argument on the phone over a stupid reason but i know 100% that its his fault!! He hung up on me and said bye, its been 2 hours, he hasn't called or text me but i know he's on msn, i'm just on appear offline, should i go online and talk to him? Or should i leave him to worry about me and eventually call and apologise? I need an answer quickly, sorry!
2007-01-15 07:39:50 · 5 answers · asked by Yellow 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would not sign on and wait to see if he IMs you; he might just be waiting to see if you IM him.
Instead, I'd take a while off--maybe a couple days?--and relax. Maybe watch a few movies, read a good book, or something like that. If he calls you before you feel totally relaxed, just tell him that you need a while to think about things and you'll get back to him when you're ready.
Once you feel calm about the argument, you should contact him, then try to work out the problem with NO yelling and NO fighting. Be sure he understand from the beginning that you need to work this out as calmly as possible. If you feel things are getting out of hand--like if you're getting too upset by it or if he seems to be getting too upset by it--just take a break from the conversation and take up where you left off after both of you have had another long break.
Best of luck!
2007-01-15 07:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by Halley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always better not to play games. Try to be honest about your feelings or whatever the problem is its the best way. Otherwise, your just guessing that he knows what your thinking and no one does.
2007-01-15 15:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by amndawd 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lmao ur in a online relationship GET A REAL BF HUN
2007-01-15 21:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by blehh b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go only but only to see if he will IM you.
2007-01-15 15:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by dolphinsfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get online, but don't IM him.
2007-01-15 15:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by dabombae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋