Is it wrong for the mother-in-law to throw the baby shower? Actually, she isn't my mother in law yet, but she is my boyfriend's mother. Just wondering what people think about this. Also, what do you think is the best time for the baby shower? Thanks for your input.
2007-01-15 07:35:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I think if your ok with her throwing it and nobody else asked before then go for it. If you'd rather do it yourself then politely tell her that.
I think the best time would be from seven months onward you dont want to be so far gone that your too tired for a party, or worse there's a chance you might go into labour at the party!
I wish baby showers were a bigger deal in the uk, they sound such fun. Enjoy yours and enjoy the new baby!
2007-01-15 07:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by cynical kitten 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, for heaven's sakes, of course not! There's nothing at all wrong with a parent throwing a shower. Whomever wants to throw a baby shower may certainly do so, as long as it's okay with the Mom-to-be.
The best time for a shower is after lunch and before dinner on a Sunday from 2-4pm (most often when people are not working) or if a weekend is not convenient or available then a weeknight (not Friday) from 7-9pm.
2007-01-15 17:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a lot of pregnant ladies end up having more than one baby shower. Usually one by a family member and one by her friends. Your mother-in-law should consult with you about the baby shower and find out who you would like to invite. Leaving you completely in the dark about it would be rude. As far as timing, most baby showers are thrown in the last couple of months of your pregnancy. Some people even wait to have one until after the baby is born. Congrats!
2007-01-15 15:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people get two baby showers, one from each side of the family. It doesn't matter who throws it as long as you and your baby are happy with the decision. It is best to wait until the third trimester and a weekend so people can attend. Pregnancy games are more fun when you are futher along.
2007-01-15 16:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by breezymourn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ethics Is commonly used In Buisness, I don't know how can it be Unethical for a soon too be MotherInlaw too set up a Baby shower for you unless she is offering too pay for the whole Baby Shower for you Its not rude she maybe showing you kindness and respect.
2007-01-15 16:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by gundame81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its bad manners, but I do know that if my mother in law threw a shower for me my mother would be upset. Best time is two to three months before you r due!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-15 15:45:09 · answer #6 · answered by kaelynnsmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if you have female family that wants to throw the shower. If you do they should all be able to participate. If not than I think it is fine if your future iin law throws your party. As for time before you get terribly uncomfortable. So like 6.5-7.5 months i would say.
2007-01-15 15:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by lynnabugg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see the harm in her throwing a shower. Enjoy it. As far as the best time? I suggest no later then a month befor you are due. Maybe a Sunday brunch as a nice restaurant.
2007-01-15 15:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by criley27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is who you want then go for it. It is not unethical or bad manners for her to throw a shower if it is what you want.
2007-01-15 16:44:56 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no anyone can give a baby shower. what do you care, you are getting gifts. what is unethical is the guy not marrying you after finding out you are pregnant. now let's hope that he supports his child and hopefully you make sure he does.
2007-01-15 15:42:33 · answer #10 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋