Should I call my girl??? after what happened?

Question

Last night it was me my girl and two friends. everything was cool until she started to be all over another friend of ours. She started giving him a massage and she even sat on his lap. He already got a girl thats crazy about him.

Then she started showing him text messages i guess from other guys she used to talk to.

Then after all this happen she tried to get close to me and hug on me, but i was like get off me.
i didnt speak to her for the rest of the night and i still havent talked to her

Should i call her , if so what should i say???

Answer 1

I would talk to her in person. Over the phone sometimes even chat can't give you a sense of what she is really feeling. Besides that her actions were provocative and made you feel uncomfortable.Start by telling her that you want to clear the air about a few things.Tell her that I felt uncomfortable with the massaging of our friend and sitting in his lap didn't give me a message of wanting to be with me. I am wanting to know what she would want from a relationship with a guy. Also her text messages to other guys does it make you feel uncomfortable? It sounds like if you sound jealous she would be upset. Make a scenario and say if his girlfriend sat in your lap and did what she did how would she feel?

Answer 2

I would definitely let her know that you did not appreciate the way she was acting last night with your friend. Let her know how it made you feel then ask her why she did it. Then go from their. Trust you feelings, and listen to yourself. She may be the cheating type.
I certainly wouldn't do that, have more respect for my man. I don't even like for a guy to hug me unless it's OK with my man, and vise-versa.

Answer 3

You need to look to your friend too. Obviously she should know better then to do that if she is in a committed relationship. Personally, I would have knocked the living hell out of my friend. He showed you the ultimate disrespect. He should know to respect your relationship. Even if he can kick your ***, you should confront him because he needs to know somehow. I would talk to your girl and see what she was thinking.

Answer 4

I think you should call her so she knows hwo you feel about the whole situation. Also you need to find out what she was doing going on other guys. find out if he is interested in the guys or she just feels like being a huge flirt. i really dont think this is anything to be too worried about. Just call her and find out whats up.

Answer 5

in case you truly like her, then call her. the way my kinfolk is, we've a decade rule, see you later as they don't seem to be better than ten years older or youthful, that is high-quality! that is in effortless words 3 years distinction in any case, that is not that a lot once you become older.

Answer 6

i think you should call her and tell her you didnt like what she was doing last night and ask what was going on and if you dont think you can get over it or you think shes cheatin then dump her
but remember theres a difference between cheating and flirting
just talk to her and se whats going on and tell her how your feeling
good luck

Answer 7

I do not think that you should call her. She obviously does not care about your feelings, don't waste your time. Find someone that cares about you and that you won't have to worry about getting up on your friends.

Answer 8

Definitely talk to her - find her what the heck she was up to. This needs to be resolved, if you hope to continue the relationship

Answer 9

Say
I want to respect myself, get out of my life NOW. We are OVER

Answer 10

ok this may sound horrible but call her and tell her that its over and explain why what she did to you was cheating !!