There's a girl I really like and we used to have a good relationship but now we barely talk and it really doesn't seem like she likes me....would calling her, and asking her whether she doesn't like me and letting her know that I feel like she somewhat hates me, be a good idea? I don't want to make the relationship any worst...cause I would still like to be able to talk to her later on...
2007-01-15 07:32:48 · 21 answers · asked by air1990 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like a sweet person . You didn't mention if u like her as a friend or more than that. You also didn't mention if u are male or female. Whatever the situation, depending on her maturity level, I think u should talk to her or write her a letter telling her exactly how u feel. If u decide to write the letter , give it to her personally but don't put your name as a signature, like I mentioned before, if she has a child like mind, she may show it to other people. Wait and see if she calls or Emails you, if not then I guess people like that aren't worth being acquainted with.
If u decide to talk to her in person, make sure she isn't around other friends or in the middle of doing other things because she may use that as an excuse that she is too busy to talk.
Good Luck.
2007-01-15 07:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are friends right. Then talk to her and tell her that you feel like your relationship with her is changing and that you really like her as a friend and that you feel that your relationship is braking apart. Dont make it sound like you are despread but that you are just want to know what is going on. Good Luck!
2007-01-15 15:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, talk to her! It's better to know, than not know don't you agree?
But don't particularly tell her you think she hates you. Just call her up and ask her how she's doing, and tell her you've been getting a weird vibe from her and ask her if she would still like to be friends! And don't rush into telling her how you feel about her. Friendship is important to have before rushing into feelings.
Good luck!
2007-01-15 15:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by lovasway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I where I would question whether or not you really want to be her friend because it doesnt seem like she wants to yours. I had a friend who I really wanted to be cool with but even though I would try to talk to her after a fight, she would not respond so then I asked my self that question and realized she doesnt deserve to be my friend. And now she askes everyone how I am doing but, I dont talk to her till this day.
2007-01-15 15:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey tough question see if this helps....She "Probably" dosn't like you anymore only if the last time you talked to her was like a year ago... otherwise if you see her in school and other activites then just ask her if she wants to be commited to being in a relationship.....I am 13........ DONT CALL HER AND ASK that would be horrible.......TRUST ME!!!!!
2007-01-15 15:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by Brown-Eyed-Beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well were you in a relationship with her or was she just your friend? If you want to know where you stand with her just call her and ask her but if the answer isnt what you wanted you need to just deal with it and move on.
2007-01-15 15:36:33 · answer #6 · answered by Believe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the best thing you should do. Talk to her and see where she is coming from. Be upfront with her and tell her how you feel and see how she feels. Be like Nike and just do it. So, you won't have any regrets!! Good luck!!
2007-01-15 15:37:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you call her don't be negative. Don't say "i feel like you hate me". Call her and ask if she likes you. Call and say something like "hi, i know we don't talk much anymore but i wanted to tell you i like you and want to talk to you more" and see what she says. Good luck!
2007-01-15 15:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by blhenne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and give her chocolate ask if she likes u but dont be 2 forward about it
2007-01-15 15:39:21 · answer #9 · answered by ☮chargrilled☮ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her, but make it casual. like ur calling to see how shes doing since u havent talked to her in a lil while. and see what she says....feel her out...u'll be able to tell if shes trying to brush u off
2007-01-15 15:37:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋