Did I ruin my chance with her?

Question

Did I ruin my chance with her?
Here's the deal: Went out with an attractive girl that we had lots in common with. She did the following and ladies I want you to tell me the meaning of these actions She extended her arms out toward me with her palms up, not touching mine, she kept crossing her legs and leaning over. She kept playing with her boot. She told me she didnt' have socks on under her boots, she gave me sips of her drinks several times, she also invited me to see the house she was going to be until she realized it was getting late. We were out until a little after midnight during the work week.
I flirted with her, held her hand for a little bit before s, and told her that I could tell that she was into yoga and loved to cook. Both were true. She seemed amazed. She also seemed red and was smiling alot and at one point rested her chin on her palm while she laughed at things I said that weren't even meant to be funny. I asked her out again, and she said "I'd love to" with this face like "aww, isn't that cute.

Additional Details

5 minutes ago
Two things I forgot to add:

When I put my hand in hers, she held it, but seemed confused then I asked her if she minded it, she stared at her menu and said no, then she pulled it away after about 5 seconds.

Also, I have called her a total of 5 times in those three weeks and I never plan to ever again.

Beavis, first off you make no sense. Why do I care? I want to make sure my not kissing her was not the reason shes not interested.

Also, im not a stalker. I never want to be that guy and if I ever stray upon those lines, they will be very brief.

You have a lot of nerve Jinxy. If anyone is lame, it's you! More of a friendly thing? Isn't that what a date is supposed to be if it's working out? You're making it sound like she's doing me a favor. She didn't do me any favors? Were you there?

And fisherwoman, tell me........what are you basing she wasn't interested on? Tell me the proof you have? How was she really not into the date? Tell me.....

Answer 1

She seemed to really like you, but maybe she was just afraid to tell you that you're better suited as friends. Especially since the date was more of a friendly thing. I mean c'mon, " I could tell that she was into yoga and loved to cook" that was lame, you gotta admit.

Answer 2

Getting back jointly with an ex is the stuff of hollywood...that is why you observe it on television. it truly is dreamy-stuff that fairly virtually under no circumstances works out yet makes for a good action picture. do not waste a even as. If it grow to be meant to be, it would have worked. If by using some probability it can ever artwork back, your ex would make more suitable of an attempt to be sure you back. quit chasing this dream flow on and commence residing existence back.

Answer 3

It sounds like she was into you and all but that she still wants to keep options open. Maybe she just wants some time to herself. You could be coming on too strong. Remember... a girl likes to be pursued not stalked.... Try not calling her for a few days.... the nout of nowhere be like... oh long time no talk... try to get her to go somewhere with you with other people... Maybe she isn't ready to be that close to you yet

Answer 4

Yeah, don't call her again. I don't know that you blew it with her, but her actions seem to be saying "nice guy, but not interested". She may have been a bit nervous"pulling on the boot" and such, but I don't think she was really into the date. Sorry, but keep trying elsewhere.

Answer 5

It sounds to me like your attempted palm readings put her off. And if u didnt even kiss her goodnight maybe she think YOUR not interested.. But i believe maybe you did make some sort of error or she'd return your calls.

Answer 6

If she is not calling back...then I would say she is not interested. Stop obsessing over it, there are plenty of single girls out there that would love to hold your hand...

Answer 7

Also, I have called her a total of 5 times in those three weeks and I never plan to ever again.


SO WHY DO YOU CARE?

I DOUBT IT,CHICKS ARE EASY,
SHAG HER ROTTEN AND FORGET HER

Answer 8

whenever I say never.. I will probably do it again... so think twice before giving up... you just might be giving up something good

Answer 9

i don't see where you ruined your chance with this girl. also i don't see why she would tell you she wasn't wearing any socks under her boots.

Answer 10

i think she is shy.try to make her feel more comfortable anytime you are with her. get her to really open up and things will be fine.