I went through a crisis of faith for about a year, but I finally discovered I had an incorrect idea of God and didn't read the Bible properly, and reverted to Christianity. A friend of mine now experiences a similar kind of crisis, but I'm hesitant about helping her out. I like the fact that I solved my problem on my own (I discovered a lot when I was a self-proclaimed atheist), and I found that temporarily "dropping out" of church helpful, but should I assume that she wants to solve her problem the same way? Or should I tell her everything I've learned without letting her find out on her own?
2007-01-15 07:23:30 · 16 answers · asked by Walking B 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Would you let someone walk in front of a car if you had been hit by one and learned that it could hurt you. Tell her the truth but then the ball is in her court.
2007-01-15 07:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by HAND 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Work through the problem together. There is nothing wrong with helping someone. Ultimately the choice is theirs but if they have an incorrect assumption about something there is nothing wrong with showing them the truth. Some people are self-learners, others need a little guidance.
Show her why you feel the way you do, back it up with scripture, and work through it with her. Tell her and show her where to look to see if it jives or not.
At the end of it, let her come to her own conclusions though...
2007-01-15 07:28:41 · answer #2 · answered by Emperor Insania Says Bye! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you can certainly share you journey with her and tell her what you went through and what it was that got you on the path you chose.
She will obviously have to find her own way where ever it is her journey will take her. But take your cue from the interest she expresses and if she wants to know more she will ask you.
But you can certainly let her know that you've stood in her shoes. She may know that already or she may not, so if she doesnt it might help her to find her own way just knowing someone understands.
2007-01-15 07:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "reverting" to Christianity? There is nothing above Jesus!
If you want to help anybody including your friend, encourage them in ways prescribed by Scripture, not edvising them to drop out of church! Thats the last thing you should do or say! Now its one thing to suggest someone to switch churchs because the one theyre in is evil but to suggest they not serve God by denying the church is a mistake.
2007-01-15 07:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be there for her. Answer questions and let her know that you will be her support and friend in faith. If anything, she needs you at this time; she is vulnerable. Take time to pray to God and ask for guidance and help. Rely on His spirit, let Him take charge. By your being there for her, you're showing her what all Christians are supposed to show everyone in the world: love.
2007-01-15 08:13:22 · answer #5 · answered by Danny H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think as a Christian you are obligated to help guide her through what you have already been through.
However, think back, and I am sure you will realize that you would have resented someone pushing you to make the kind of decision that you finally made.
Having said that, I think you should give her the road map, but you need to do it in love, and back off if she resists.
grace2u
2007-01-15 07:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by Theophilus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a nice thought of you to be always around for a friend. But I think when it comes to a matter of faith it's best to leave her alone only until she started asking you and sincerely wants answer from you. Otherwise, it won't sound good for her for having someone dictating.
2007-01-15 07:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that we all experience things, good and bad, in life and we can use our experiences to help others. You are recognizing a similar search in your friend and you can tell her your story, and provide her with the resources you used in your search.
You can let her know you are available to talk with when she is ready.
You can pray for her, and you can offer to pray with her either now, or if and when she is ready to accept Jesus Christ.
May God bless you and your friend.
2007-01-15 07:31:46 · answer #8 · answered by Carol B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't interfere. I believe that we all have a path that we are meant to walk. Your friend may want you to bee there to help her down the path, but I'd let her lead the way. You never know, you may learn something new for yourself.
2007-01-15 07:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have a friend who is struggling with her search for God. We talk to her about how God has brought peace and love to our lives and how He will do the same in her life. Just be there to listen to her. Ask God for the words to speak to her. If you listen, He will tell you what to say.
2007-01-15 07:28:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋