Bit of a weird situation here. I had an interview with a recruitment agent today - actually it was more of a chat. Anyway, I don't want the job that I was interviewed for, but I do want her! She was flirting with me quite a lot and I thought that she was incredibly hot. I am willing to take the risk and let her know that I like her, but since I will probably only speak to her or email her once more, I don't know what to say?
Any ideas ladies and gents? Should I be subtle or do I need to be forward here and ask her out for a coffee or something? I have nothing to loose since I will never see her or work with her again if she turns me down.
Thanks
2007-01-15 07:18:34 · 13 answers · asked by Aries 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
e-mail her asking her out for a coffee...then see where it goes from there...sounds like the perfect situation, doesn't it? she says yes, great! you get a bit of fun and maybe even a relationship...she says no, oh well, doesn't matter either coz you never have to see her again! well done you!
2007-01-15 07:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep - if you have nothing to lose just go for it.
I would wait until she emails you or you email her about the status of your job 'interview'. If it is negative just respond by saying something like:
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Ah well - thanks for the opportunity to be considered for the job anyway.
Would you like to meet up for coffee/lunch this week?
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Keep it nice and casual rather than conveying your undieing love!
But be careful not to confuse a warm professional bedside manner with flirting. Women don't always realise that they are flirty!
Good luck!
2007-01-15 15:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the job and get to know here abit more. if the job isn't that big then you can have more time and chance to tell her how u feel. but first ask casual questions like whats her fav type of song and stuff. then, casually, ask her for a spot of lunch. ask more and tell more of you and see what you thnk of then when you reach the stage of good friends if you want to up a level.
good luck, mate!
2007-01-15 15:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by vighnesh p 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be forward in this situation!
she likes you and you are not gonna be a work colleague.
Go for it!
Like you say nawt to loose!
Coffee seems a reasonable suggestion to me, good luck!
2007-01-15 15:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by Little miss naughty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be forward. I just got into a relationship and he didn't beat around the bush and that is great. If you beat around the bush then you'll get nervous and so will she with ackward silences. Just ask her out. Hope that helps.
2007-01-15 15:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by russianchix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you feel that you have nothing to lose then I would be totally straight with her and tell her how you feel. Also tell her that you're not interested in the job. If you don't tell her the latter, then she may be conflicted on how to answer you. Just be honest.......and sweet.
2007-01-15 15:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by workinggirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question - you have nothing to lose so ask her out for lunch or coffee. Good luck!
2007-01-15 15:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've got nothing to lose, I say go for it. Just ask her out. No reason to hesitate.
2007-01-15 15:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a Cadbury's Cream Egg - someone did that for me once - it was amazing.
2007-01-15 17:51:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her a message in a CV type format.
FAO: her name
Name:
Telephone:
Position seeking: Drink after work on Thursday evening.
Let's hope the chemistry continues!
2007-01-15 15:33:28 · answer #10 · answered by Isabelle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋