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I dated a guy for 2 months. We both agreed to just be friends.
Well after only about a week, he sees me out with another guy. And old friend who I had been ingnoring cause I was dating my boyfriend. Well, to be honest, I think he went out looking for me. He came to my normal "hang-out" and came in and saw me.
So He stood at the end of the bar, staring for about an hour and half.
He downed a couple of shots and drinks and stumbled out the door.
After I had parted ways with my date. I called the ex to see if he made it home ok.
Well, he allowed a girl to answer his phone. What is that about? why couldnt he of just let it go to voice mail or hit the ignore button.
I think the girl felt awkward, she stated that she was one of his employees and asked me to hold on..then she put him on the phone.
What is that all about? I asked next day :"why all the drama and high school games" all he could say is "yeah, i know. Sorry"
Why did he did he do that?

2007-01-15 07:16:56 · 14 answers · asked by MiMi 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

14 answers

Guys play games,..sure..some do.But everyone knows notoriously that girls are experts in the mind game dept. So dont label it a guy thing when its done by females most often. Asking why guys play headgames is like asking why do guys wear makeup.

2007-01-15 07:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well not all guys are like jackasses like him. He's probably still getting over the emotional rollarcoaster that he had while you two were breaking up And seeing you with another guy ( even though it was just a friend ) made him remind himself of the times you guys had together? and how now he dosn't have you anymore, and he got jealous. (as if you couldn't figure that out) Again he was drunk, so when you are drunk you'll do and say **** that you don't mean of course. So in all retrospect. One he was jealous. two he's drunk. three, they guy is probably getting over the break up.

2007-01-15 07:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jason M 3 · 0 0

It's natural for a guy or girl to feel awkward & even a bit hurt when seeing their ex out on a date. However, you shouldn't of contacted him ( I understand it was out of concern) . You don't have the right to be upset over ANY woman answering his phone either hun. You had no rights qyestioning him on it. Are u possitive you two are FINISHED?

2007-01-15 07:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0 0

I don't think that you called to make sure he got home all right, you were looking to see what his reaction was to your date. It's always more fun to have the ex "hangin on" when you can throw it in their face, not so nice when it comes back around. The girl answering the phone, so what, maybe he was doing something and asked her to pick it up. It sounds more like jealousy on your part. Let him go............he has moved on.........you need to also.

2007-01-15 07:24:31 · answer #4 · answered by fisherwoman 6 · 0 0

i'd honestly like to know the same think. I think it's all about their egos and their pride.. god forbid they come off as being a tad bit desperate and like they miss you.. they need you to see that they are always surrounded by girls airgo girls answering the phone.. lamee-o..
i hate the games that are played gahh

2007-01-15 07:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by hairkair 2 · 0 0

hmmm did u ask him why the girl answered his phone? if he didnt tell you why, then simply put, hes an ***. guys who play games are assholes and losers so i wouldnt even want to waste my time with them. im not a guy so i cant tell you why they play games but i just assume they are sick individuals who love to see girls getting hurt by their actions.

2007-01-15 07:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by cellie_mania 3 · 0 0

2 get your attion

2007-01-15 07:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by itachi 2 · 0 0

people play games

2007-01-15 07:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

maybe he want ed ot make you jeleis or something (sorry bout the spelling)

2007-01-15 07:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by Cat 3 · 0 0

I don't get it....if he's stalking you, you'd better inform the police.....

2007-01-15 07:21:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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