my girlfriend is living 500 miles away. i went out with some folks last night and ended up with a girl we took lots of drugs (so i cant remember it all) but i remember when i woke up in her bed i had her in my arms. i dont know what happened. i was going to tell my girlfriend but i think it might just upset her. if you are to drunk to remember what you done is it still wrong. we didnt have sex, or even kiss, but i knew when i went out with her that i wanted to lie with her. im an idiot.
2007-01-15 07:15:28 · 23 answers · asked by splinter 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do you know you didn't have sex or kiss if you cant remember anything? lol Of course its going to upset her.. If your having feelings of just needing to be held or to hold someone maybe its time to have a serious talk with the Lil woman and tell her how you feel.. They say what people don't know wont hurt them but in your case not remembering a thing..that's a little scary. You were strung out but it's still no excuse. Break it off with your gurl if you thinking about being with others.
2007-01-15 07:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by SiKofPsYchos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're right you are an idiot. At least you realize this, secondly if you went out and knew that you wanted to lay with this girl then in my opinion you are not worthly of having the love of someone 500 miles away. You should never get so drunk as to no remember what happened and yes if this has happened then it is still wrong. I think that you should call your girlfriend who lives 500 miles away and tell her what happened and let her decide whether or not she wants to still be with you.
2007-01-15 07:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you gotta be careful because what if the next time you end up having sex with someone that has an STD or even AIDS? Or what if you get the girl pregnant? That's first, but then it comes the issue about trust, you really have to think what your are doing and be more responsible since you can hurt someones feelings. Don't forget to be careful, there are some nasty drugs out there and for you not to remember things that happened is very F_ _ CK UP.
2007-01-15 07:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by Kubricksmind 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drugs and alcohol make people do stupid things for sure. It would only hurt her and could destroy your relationship if you tell her about it. You have to decide whether or not whether or not you want to have an honest relationship with her and if you can live with keeping that secret from her. Since you didn't kiss the girl or have sex with her I think it's not such a big secret and personally I'd file this one in the 'don't tell her and don't do it again' category. Stop doing drugs and drinking so much...you are an idiot for doing that.
2007-01-15 07:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are an idiot. How do you know you didnt have sex if you were so doped up you cant remember. You really dont know what you were doing so you couldve kissed slept with her etc. Why does your girlfriend live 500 miles away? what if she did the same thing how would you feel
2007-01-15 07:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you see any signs of sexual contact, besides waking up with her in your arms...?
You messed up bad, if I were you I would tell your girlfriend so that way she can know what a loser she has for a boyfriend...
think about this if you love your girl why would you be out doing drugs and partying with other girls much less waking up next to some hoe... what if you caught STD or HIV what if she got pregnant? If you were drugged up and drunk how would you know if you never had sex or even kissed.
2007-01-15 07:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep...no offense and not trying to be mean but you are right, you are an idiot and yes, it probably WILL upset her. You need to come clean though. I don't care if you didn't have sex or kiss...How can you expect your GF to believe that anyway? If you did drugs then how do you really know for sure?
Would you want YOUR GF to do the same thing you did? Would you be glad to hear of it or would it upset you? I always say...don't to anything you wouldn't want your GF doing herself if you weren't around.
2007-01-15 07:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by Rach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lay off the alcohol and the drugs. Then you won't behave like such an idiot in the future. Break up with your girlfriend too. Spare her the heart ache now. She deserves someone who won't cheat on her.
2007-01-15 07:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by Am I. Incognito 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The most foolish part is taking drugs so you don't remember what happened. You shouldn't tell her and just not do it again. Decide if you're gonna be committed to your girlfriend or not.
2007-01-15 07:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy Sandals 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are not an idiot. Everybody makes mistakes sometimes. What you need to do is put this all behind you and make sure you dont do anything like it again. As long as you do that, youll be fine. Change the way you do things, and watch out for yourself. You might want to go to a friend that doesnt do things like that and tell them to watch out for you and inform you if you are doing things that you shouldnt be, sometimes we need somebody to inform us and give us reality check. I hope i helped
2007-01-15 07:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋