hey there is this guy..hes so cute but hes 21, hes always nice and sweet to me and he smiles at me all the time, i met him through my brother...but does he like me? should i go out with him? or is he playing me?? I NEED SOME ANSWERS!!! oh yea im 14
2007-01-15 07:11:44 · 46 answers · asked by necole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget about him, you're too young.
2007-01-15 07:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by ¥æ£Majik£æ¥ 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No you should not go out with him cause your too young. I know you don't want to hear that.. but its true. When I was 16 I use to date older guys... like 20 & 21.. and I thought I was mature enough and didn't think anything was wrong with that at the time. Then when I turned 21... some of my guy friends were dating 16 years olds and it made me ill... cause I could see how they were manipulating/playing them. Their intentions are not as genuine as they may seem. So be smart baby girl! Keep your eyes open.
2007-01-15 07:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by CEP 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No you should not go out with him, he's 21 your 14 only thing that he would be worried about was the panties. No point in wasting your time unless thats all your looking for. And for all you know he's just being friendly by smiling, people do it all the time. Dont take it for more than what it was "a smile" he's just being nice.
2007-01-15 07:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
any 21 year old who wants to date a 14 year old is a freak. Does he know you're only 14?
Maybe he's just a nice, sweet guy and he doesn't want to date you, he's just nice and sweet.
Don't turn into one of those girls who screws every guy that smiles at her.
2007-01-15 07:32:24 · answer #4 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are jail bait!!! He probably (if he has any common sense at all) would not date you in the first place. Just because a guy is nice to you does not mean he is in love with you. He might just be a nice person. And plus your older brother would most likely kick his friends A** for going after his baby sister.
2007-01-15 07:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by Sara 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, I hate to tell you this but there is a 95% chance he is playing you. Not trying to be mean, just trying to convince you to not do something you will regret. Even if he really does care for you, think about the fact he is that much older than you. Before long (if not already) he will start to finish the last of his growing up and will want different things, and you will still be young and wanting to be a kid. Don't do it!!
2007-01-15 07:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by Chris L 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is way too old for you. He may think your cute, but he is with out a doubt, no matter how mature you are...too old for you. Please don't give him the time of day. You might end up in a situation your not ready for. I had a freind who was 14, who's mom encouraged her to date 20 year olds. She got pregnant at 14.
2007-01-15 07:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by shouldbworkn 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Uh huh. Can you subtract 21 from 14? Just wonderin'...
2007-01-19 03:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're only 14 you shouldn't be even thinking bout going out with guys, study your school work you have your whole life ahead of you!! just because he smiled at you doesn't mean he wants to be with you. he's wayyyy too old for you girl.
2007-01-15 07:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by Yasmine_flower 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you the same thing I would tell my own little sister. He should be beaten and thrown in jail if he touches you. If he actually is attempting to hook up with you it is to use you as a *** dumpster. Sorry but it is the truth. Your 14 go be young and have fun, look him up when your older if you think its meant to be.
2007-01-15 07:18:11 · answer #10 · answered by feargov 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
14? He could smile at you from a big brother perspective. Did he ask you out? I'd not go out with him unless he did. You know, it would be a realllllyyy embarrassing situation if he didn't like you and you asked him out. That would be really bad and so very not cool. I would just leave him be unless he made a move; then I might worry a little. lol
2007-01-15 07:16:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋