well first off Im only 14 so I dont need all this drama but what should I do if the guy I like dosent like me, and this other guy like me but I dont like him. I me this guy this year and I like him so much ,but the problem is...another guy I known scence kindergarden still likes me. I dont think I got that many feelings for him but at times I dont know. The guy I like flirts with me, but talk to me about this other gitl he likes, so I dont think he likes me. Well, just want to know if I should ask the guy I like out, or thell the guy who likes me I'll go out with him.
2007-01-15 07:00:09 · 12 answers · asked by Katie-bug 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nice try me lady, but you got to do better than that to catch the culprit:):):)
2007-01-15 07:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all... Just because the other guy likes you doesnt mean you should go out with him. LOTS of guys will like you in your life time and its ok to be picky. So if the feelings arent mutual, then dont do it. As for the guy you like, if you dont ask.. you'll never know. Regret is hard to live with later on in life... so do it. Good luck
2007-01-15 07:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you could ask the guy you like out. What's it going to hurt...the worse that could happen is that he'll say no. No big deal! Then you'll know for sure!!
Secondly...don't just date the other guy just because!! That's not fair to him. You don't want to lead him on! It's very unfair!
Thirdly...your only 14...don't get too bent out of shape if he doesn't want to go out. "There are other fish in the sea" as my mother always used to tell me!
2007-01-15 07:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haa i've had this situation a couple times before and i'm 18 btw.
ok with guy that you like but doesnt like you, get over him. why waste your time with a guy that wont like you? you can be looking for other guys instead! i know this sounds harsh and all, but its the truth. however, if you still think he likes you, ask him out AFTER you tell off the other guy who likes you.
you really should tell the other guy who likes you (but u dont like him) that you dont like him and you think its better for him to find another girl because you feel it wont go anywhere and you dont want to hurt him more than you have already (since you're not with him and he likes you). only tell him this if you are sure you wont like him because once you tell him this, he will not like you anymore. it will hurt him but after he gets over it, he will be happy you told him this.
2007-01-15 07:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by cellie_mania 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I realize when you're 14 this all seems like such a big deal, but it's really not in the long run. Leave both of them alone and enjoy your friends and family....if you put too much in them you will not like the places it will take you. It's okay to talk to boys and everything, but have other things in your life you like too.
2007-01-15 07:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by qamberq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends with who you wish to be friends with. You dont need to be dating one on one just yet. Groups are more fun. You can enjoy or not enjoy who you wish within a group. One on one isnt always all that it's cracked up to be whether in your teens or beyond! The object is to ENJOY. And dont allow all the drama ruin your youth. ;)
2007-01-15 07:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would nicely be a yeast an infection or UTI bypass the docs and get some antibiotics. Oh and some STI's and STD's are genetic, you'll get them out of your moms and dads with out ever having sex
2016-10-31 04:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say ask the guy you like if he wants to go out sometime if he doesn't then don't worry about it and go for the other guy. Nothing will happen it seems unless you make it happen.
2007-01-15 07:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by nitespector 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with someone you don't like, it doesn't matter if they like you. Second, guys (unless they are really shy) don't like to be asked out, just be yourself and let them ask you out. This might not sound like good advice to you at 14, but as someone twice your age who has been there, believe me, if the guy doesn't ask you out, he doesn't want to go out with you.
2007-01-15 07:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by Bridget W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DRAM DRAMA DRAMA...Go find 1 that you do like and he returns the affection. BAM you all set. See wasn't that easy???
2007-01-15 07:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by Psycomagnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋