a female comes on to them? I'm talking sexually. I've had a couple of guys approach me, get my phone number and all, then when I start approaching them, they back off and quit calling me...why is that??
2007-01-15 06:58:39 · 17 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cuz they're scurred ....losers... if you see what you want, go for it.
2007-01-15 07:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by Estelle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not the norm, but I love it!! I approach and I get approached or I atleast provide an opportunity for them to approach by the conversation at hand. I usually approach because I very rarely hestitate when I see an attractive female. Ofcourse, I always evaluate the situation no matter what. Is she available, physically fit, seem happy, not shy, no wedding ring, how she's dressed, lots of other things. You can read people most of the time if you pay attention. It's not 100% but you get a good idea of their mood at the moment.
2007-01-15 15:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to let them chase you. Make 'em work for it. They'll appreciate and value you more. If you come onto them, even if they do take advantage, it's likely to be simply out of convenience. If a guy really wants you, he'll do the chasing.
In answer to your question, generally, it's only intimidating if the guy is really inexperienced, shy or perhaps has moral misgivings.
2007-01-15 15:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are built to want a challenge. They want to slay the dragon and climb the tower to rescue the princess. It's in their DNA. If a girl just throws herself out for the taking, she isn't worth much to him. Make them work for you.
2007-01-15 15:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by BaseballGrrl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could scare them, or they might take it for being easy. I would back down on the sexual aggression, until the man is yours. Then he will love it.. Otherwise they dont know what to think.
2007-01-15 15:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it depends how full on you are.maybe the guys are genuine and would like to get to know ya a bit beta before jumping straight into bed. yep there are some of us out there,i know its hard to believe but its true.
2007-01-15 15:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by nelster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are not read for that kind of loving lat ok. So not time you just ask them if they are read for some loving and if they say yes then you can do what you have to do.
2007-01-15 15:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by chevel s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOST GUYS LIKE TO JUST HET LAID WITHOUT A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. OTHERS MIGHT BE AFRAID BECAUSE OF BAD EXPERIANCES OR NOT KNOWING WHAT WILL HAPPEN. ITS A GUY THING NEXT TIME LET THEM APPROACH YOU
2007-01-15 15:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by lilstrings84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like to chase. A mousetrap doesn't chase the mouse, now does it?
2007-01-15 15:03:50 · answer #9 · answered by jdd's_kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general, guys like to chase, they don't like when women pursue them. It takes the fun out for them, stupid, but seems to be true.
2007-01-15 15:01:56 · answer #10 · answered by Bridget W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I got no problem with it at all...My problem is that its always the wrong girl that does the chasing.
2007-01-15 15:04:12 · answer #11 · answered by Psycomagnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋