2007-01-15 06:55:47 · 9 answers · asked by Sylvia B 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Since giving birth is big deal, i would think that some women have little difficulty and some have great difficulty. Each woman is different. If you are having troubles, this may be something that you should speak to your ob/gyn about.
2007-01-15 07:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by great gig in the sky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, your doctor will most likely tell you to wait 6 weeks before having intercourse. You need time to heal, plus, you'll have some bleeding for a while (about 3 or 4 weeks). Then when you do have sex at 6 or 7 weeks, it'll hurt a bit. It felt like I was a virgin again. The second time it hurt a little and the third time too, but after that it was fine and sex got totally back to normal. As for "wanting" to have sex again, everyone is different. It all depends on how your body reacts to all the crazy hormones in your body. If you're super tired from the baby waking up all night to feed, you might not have the energy for a while. Hopefully you'll have your sex drive back at 6 weeks. If not, it should return a couple weeks later. It's nice to get back to having sex without such a huge belly.
2007-01-15 07:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by annamartin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on your situation. For some people, labor, delivery, physical healing, emotions, taking care of new baby, etc. takes everything out of them. Then there are the lucky ones who seem like they bounce back after a day or so and have the baby of their dreams. Plus consider all the possibilities in between. Nothing's typical, everything's based on the situation. Let it happen when it happens, and in the meantime spend as much time together being affectionate as you can (if baby lets you and you can stay awake long enough lol).
2007-01-15 07:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should placed it on your ideas, that you want sex, imagine about it,and opt for it. The extra you concentration that you want it, your libido will strengthen, stay faraway from all the white bread, enriched bleach flour, eat darkish chocolate, vegetables, and protein, and eco-friendly teas, to destress your self. frequently you should attend 6 weeks, in sparkling, after the toddler's start, yet placed it on your ideas that you're better than ever earlier.
2016-11-24 19:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by schook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on you. Some people take months some weeks and some days.
2007-01-15 06:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by sassssy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could take months because your hormones have to find a normal level again. But it does depend a lot on your mentality, do you want to have sex, not crave it but just want to do it for your husband.
2007-01-15 06:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by samanny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably different for everyone. Too soon and you risk opening up newly healed tears, but it's great to help you and your husband feel close.
2007-01-15 07:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife's came back straight away practically now we have two little girls 10 months apart.
I haven't slept for 2 years help.
Only joking I love it really.
In fact it never went away to be honest.
2007-01-15 07:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by Bohdisatva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shoot, I was more than ready after 3 weeks, but waited til 5.
2007-01-15 06:58:19 · answer #9 · answered by wish I were 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋