I dont know if he likes me...cause he likes my boyfriends friend "Katie" (lets just say thats her name). I feel bad for liking him but i cant help it. What do i do?
2007-01-15 06:42:06 · 24 answers · asked by Chrissie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldnt be with your boyfriend, if you want to be with someone else.
2007-01-15 06:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends. how old are you??? If you have a boyfriend and you have a crush on one of his friends then you need to either get over it or dump your boyfriend and move on to someone else. Don't you have any self control??? If you still can't get over this crush then after you break up and give it some time try dating the other guy. I'm sure everything should be fine after you give some time. You never know the new guy could have a cool friend and you can maybe have a crush on him also.....grow up!!!!!
2007-01-15 14:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stay with your boyfriend and let life decide what is best for you. If it is meant for the best friend to be your boyfriend, it will happen. Take one day at a time.
You probably will lose your boyfriend and never have the best friend either. You will need a better understanding of what love really means.
2007-01-15 14:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by mdzevolveddammit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation,I was crushing on my bf's bestfriend and didn't know what to do.especially since he liked a girl already.So I sat hhim down with me and talked about it privately.So he told me that it wouldn't be right to do that to his best friend and my boyfriend.but my advice would depend on # things:1 if the relationship is going down hill I say try i,2:if u have benn together a long time dont hurt his feelings by doing it behind his back talk to your bf and tell him u dont feel the same way u onced felt about him and that u like his best friend:3:if you guys dont click anymore just dump him
2007-01-15 14:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by lonely girl 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend's best friend is a good guy, you will never be able to date him. That's taboo. So stop being greedy. Get over him. It's just a crush. You have a boyfriend. Can Katie have a boyfriend too? Dang. Don't be a female dog!
2007-01-15 14:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Pleo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay, this is rough but it depends on how long you've been together and how "deep" your relationship has gone.
If you have been together a short time than it will probably be okay if you're honest with him and tell him you have feelings for his friend.
If you have had a "deep" i.e. physical relationship FORGET IT. It is not even worth the drama of getting involved with someone's best friend when those type of feelings are involved.
If no physical issues shade the problem than go for it. (Your situation is so Dawson's Creek)
2007-01-15 14:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by Rianna 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. You have a boyfriend. First, you must figure out what you want. Your boyfriend, or his friend. Just remember, that you could be ruining a good friendship between them two and for what? A guy that doesn't like you, but likes someone else?
2007-01-15 14:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...lets see do you like you're boyfriend. What seems more worth it?I've been in this situation before; if you really did like/ love your bf. it wouldn't matter if his bestfriend liked you or not... you wouldn't even care if you felt so "bad" about liking the bestfriend. Figure out who you really want.
2007-01-15 14:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump your boyfriend and ask his buddy out. Simple as that. Why should you be with someone you don't like - and even more importantly - why should you keep your boyfriend from being happy with some other girl who might like him more than you?
2007-01-15 14:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by amorgan4osu 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
then you have a problem. you either need to stay away from the best friend, or break up with your b//f and try things with the best friend. or maybe it will just go away. don't worry about it too much. i used to have a crush on my sis' fiance, but then when i stopped hanging around him, my feelings went away. maybe yours will too.
2007-01-15 14:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by Essie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing at all.
Give your head a shake. Why are you with your boyfriend if you have feelings for other people?
2007-01-15 14:51:58 · answer #11 · answered by Aly G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋