i love this guy bc he is kind, sweet, romantic, and we share common interests... we are good friends.. but physically i never imagine myself with someone like him. he is short guy 5'5-5'6.... and his face isnt attrative... and umm.. he doesnt have good ethic... kinda lazy... i mean.. .. i care about a handsome guy and someone who like to stay busy and be active.. but should i just fall for this guy bc he listens to me and is sweet to me????????? dont know what to do.
2007-01-15 06:15:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it sounds like you'd probably dump him for the first 'attractive' guy you meet who acts sweetly to you. Do this guy a favor and don't get involved with him. Someday you might consider seeing people for who they are on the inside, not just how they appear on the outside.
2007-01-15 06:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by MacLeod_73 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I tired it.
Now I do believe I am in lovewith this guy!
Seriously, he is so wonderful to me, andwe have total resonance, read each others minds, and we care a lot.
I am happy I tried it- though it wasn't right away that I thought I was doing something good LOL....
He grew on me, so his looks did too- now I think he's cute :P
:)
I didnt even realize how much he had grown on me and howmuch I cared, till I tried to break up with him BECAUSE of his looks-- I thought I could never be with him if he wasnt "my type" ...but, that made me realize how great we aretogether-- he may just be right for me!!
BUT- you cannot sacrifice INSIDE traits. If you disagree with something internal in him, that can be a real problem!
2007-01-15 14:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by Yentl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've gone out with guys who were not physcially attractive, but I was attracted to them (chemistry)...however lazy and poor work ethic would be a turnoff...I'm not going to support anyone and I prefer to date someone who likes to be active and go and do things, as I do.
So if we had major issues at odds, as you mention, even if he was super sweet and drop-dead gorgeous, it wouldn't work out.
2007-01-15 14:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason to date someone you are not attracted to. You can stay friends if he can handle that. After all, I suspect his interest in you is motivated by his physical attraction to you, so don't feel bad about needing to feel the same way about your significant other.
2007-01-15 14:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for your dream! Do not settle! If you settle, you will regret it later.
There needs to be physical attraction...without it the person fits into best friend category...
2007-01-15 14:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by PS3 Fanatic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋