There is a girl I dated. We are now friends, but she acts so odd. She has no self-respect. I am so worried about her worried sick actually. I don't even know how to confront her how I feel. All her other "friends" encourage her behavior. She was stripping at a party with all her friends the way they liked it asked her to take her shirt off. I cried man and she slapped me and said I was making her look like a whore and making her feel bad. She has a sex drive like no other too. I care about her so ******* much it hurts a lot. I want to talk to her one day and just explain it all to her. I fear she will stop being friends because of it. Help I don't want to loose her. She has no body to help her.
2007-01-15 06:15:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
She needs psyc. meds. and you must let her go.
2007-01-15 06:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say if this girl was diagnosed with bi-polar disorder, but if she is, she needs more help than you can give her, and first, she has to realize she has a problem. The fact that she slapped you probably means she isn't too interested in what you have to say. Maybe when she has a chance to get her head on straighter, she may see that you were her real true friend, but until then, you need to take care of yourself. You're suffering from this person's problems, and you can do something about your life. You can try to be the best friend you can to her as long as it doesn't effect you ability to live your life without all the chaos that comes along with that type of disorder.
If she gets help, she can be a good friend, but without it, she is headed for a downward spiral, and anyone who is involved with her will go right along. Find your own value, and try to find out what you gain by continuing to be pulled into this situation.
Hope that helps, good luck
2007-01-15 06:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend just like that...my friend did the same thing she even got a loan against her house even though she does not have a job...your friend may not be taking her Meds...when they start going through a cycvle they think they don;t need meds if she is not on meds she should see a doctor
2007-01-15 06:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by miss vicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋