i'm 19. i broke up with my bf 2 years ago. i loved him but the I moved out of state... and I guess the love wasn't there as before. well ever since I havent met a guy that I actually like... some guys asked me on dates but they were so lame and weird... will I ever find someone that enjoys the things I do, someone that I will fall in love with again , or do you only fall in love once??? I think about this often. I wish I didn't, but I'm scared of ending up alone, and seems like I am so shy and can't meet guys like other girls do. I'm not fugly or anything haha.. i'm very smart and pretty, athletic..
2007-01-15 06:02:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are still so young. You should really start worrying when you're 30 or 40.......... Imagine those people and what it feels like at that age.
But don't worry. God has a plan for you and will bring you the right one in His time. All you have to do is have faith in Him.
Everything will be okay.
2007-01-15 06:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're 19 years old--so what's the rush?! I think it's great that you have enough self-esteem and confidence to choose to stay single as opposed to taking the bait from guys you don't find desirable. I know you're probably tired of hearing this....but this should be the best time in your life. You have total freedom to do as you please, to focus on your own needs, further your education, and become the person that you want to be. For that reason, I suggest you continue on your journey of discovering who you are and who you want to become. The more work you do on yourself the better partner you'll be for the man you choose to share your future with. So many girls your age are making mistakes that will follow them life long. You seem like just the opposite--the good choices you make now will affect your future for a long time to come. And that special guy in your future will recognize what a great catch you are....and how lucky he is to have found someone that is not afraid to be alone. Solitude serves many purposes--make it work for you. Good Luck
2007-01-15 14:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find somone some time somewhere. You arent limited to falling in love only one time. It can happen many times. Dont worrie I am 25 m and still havnt found the girl that I am suposed to be with. MY mom told me one time that I was to picky and I asked her if she would rather me be picky or settle for anyone who isnt perfect for me. She changed her tune real quick. I do wish you the best of luck but dont be in a hurry thats when you make mistakes. macinsc20@yahoo
2007-01-15 14:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by Mac H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 19. Why do you whine like a 12 year old.
Teens on this site whine like that.
Of course you will find someone. you have plenty of time.
Stop worrying and get off your butt and look. Unless of course you are fat and/or ugly.
Then your chances are slim to none unless you lose weight and/or go to plastic surgery to make your face look pretty.
EDIT: Don't worry, the almighty flying spaghetti monster has a plan for you, you have been touched by his noodly appendage!
RAmen.
Seriously, don't listen to that "god has a plan for you crap", if you don't get out there and socialize, no make-believe magical force is going to have someone show up on your doorstep, this isn't the movies.
2007-01-15 14:07:55 · answer #4 · answered by bluto blutarsky2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you may still have feelings for your ex...do you compare these new guys to him? If you're really over your ex you wont. But anyway...you're only 19!!!! you aren't gonna end up alone!
2007-01-15 14:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by jennifer d 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Until you let your ex bf completly go is when you will find another bf
2007-01-15 14:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by Jo3-Jo3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋