i love my girlfriend. yeah, i am 14. most people will look at this and laugh because i am only 14! hell! i would laugh if i saw it! but i know she loves me. we have been best friends for 2 years and going out for 5 months. i love it. it has been the best 2 years and 5 months of my life. but i am not sure if i am getting in to deep.no not sex! i meen like to deep a relasionship. if we do break up, the fall will ****ing hurt. what should i do? save the agrivation or stick?
2007-01-15 05:37:26 · 14 answers · asked by mike 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stick to it and i hope you 2 will be married one day and have a family
2007-01-15 05:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by ladysorrow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 months is a SHORT time for a relationship.
Stop analysing it. You, me and everyone else cannot predict the future. You can't change tomorrow or the past so there is no point in wondering whether or not you'll have something with this person.
You also have a LONG time ahead of you as well. You may move away or grow apart from this person. Anything could happen and I have to say, you are WAY too young to be worrying about this sort of thing. There are adults who have known each other for longer and have had longer relationships with less stress.
Give yourself a break.
Believe me, by the time you're 20, you will have eyed up a lot of possibilities and in 10 years time, it is doubtful that you will even want to still be with this person. People change.
Be happy for the moment and enjoy what is in front of you.
2007-01-15 13:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by KD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never want to listen to the people that say you are too young, but really you are. you will realize this when you get older. i think you should stay in the relationship if there aren't any problems. just remember that things could change. you both are going to start wondering what else is out there and if you don't handle it right, someone could get hurt. entertain the possibility that maybe you guys are right for eachother, but it might not be right now. your in a tough situation, but whatever happens, life does go on, no matter what you think. good luck!
2007-01-15 13:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by Nicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you said you are very young but you sound like a mature 14 year old so stay with your girlfriend and if one day you do find yourselves going in different directions or if the feelings not there any more maybe you could stay friends forever
2007-01-15 13:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by smiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its dumb (although im 14 too) i say u stick and save a lot of broken hearted nights 4 da both of u. ive been in her place & it really hurts. so just save the agravation
2007-01-15 13:50:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friends have the same relationships. i know that if they broke up both would hurt bad. id say stay in ur relationship, you love her right? she loves you? why waste time being single when you could have the time of your life with her. im staying stick to it!
2007-01-15 13:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definatly stick. if you love it and so does she then u obviously shouldnt waste it and if u break up now its still going to hurt and maybe not as much later but ull still have more fun with her for now.
2007-01-15 13:41:25 · answer #7 · answered by Elle :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her and she loves you then go for it! Age means nothing at all. You're lucky you've both found it. Best of luck :-)
2007-01-15 14:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should stick with it...by the way that you wrote the question it sounds that you really care for her...if you really care for her stay with her!!! it will hurt yes it will but you will get over it! you need to live this relationship to the fullest!!
2007-01-15 13:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teen loves come and go...enjoy it for what it is, and when it ends have nice memories and move on.
2007-01-15 13:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋