i need some tips to like relax or not be too shy
2007-01-15 05:25:44 · 17 answers · asked by Any 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be you . Attempts to change your personality according to the occasion just are too easily seen Besides don't you mostly want to date someone who likes you just the way you are . If it lasts a lifetime you will have to be just you.
2007-01-15 05:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you just start dating you probably have to act depending on what kind of guy you are dating with. I'm more on the defensive side of people :P since there are some date rapes going on around. I'm not trying to ruin your date or anything but just saying to be careful. If the guy is an outgoing friendly guy you can probably be a bit shy yes since he probably will be in control of the conversation most of the time. If the guy is a shy person then you would probably have to be more outgoing and slightly more aggressive. Use your judgement. To relax (not for everyone) you can probably drink a small amount of alchol. Try not to think too much about what the person will think about you. Because if you want the relationship to last the person will have to accept you for who you are, and if he only sees the "dating side" of you that's not too good and it probably will lead to quick break up.
2007-01-15 05:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be shy when we really start dating. To relax, just give me a call before we meet face to face.
2007-01-15 05:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy is cute...
Relax as best you can but shyness is not
always a negative thing...
Submissive is not the same as shy...
Submissiveness is very feminine...
2007-01-15 05:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat vanilla ice cream. it helps to relax. sound weird but is true. well if you dont like ice cream, try just having a conversation that i can handle w/ confidence and then it will go from there
2007-01-15 05:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act like how you would hanging out with your friends, relax, dont be someone you think they want you to be they can tell when someone is acting fake
2007-01-15 05:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by Lg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when you first start dating yea of course u going to be shy but you should break out of your shell. espacially if yall have been going out for awhile.
best of luck to you.
2007-01-15 05:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by sweetmeansour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i was to u will come around after a while. i was like that too
2007-01-15 05:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i learned that you should just be yourself...talk to the person like hes just a friend....dont be like me who tried too hard!!
2007-01-15 05:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by vincent m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just put it in perspective.
it's just hanging out not like you have to marry the guy
2007-01-15 05:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋