At school every day these 5 boys try to get me to do bad things and I'm really shy. What do I do?
2007-01-15 05:19:46 · 38 answers · asked by babyangel640 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
I'm only 12
2007-01-15 05:42:04 · update #1
They won't respect you if you give in, I would say no and report them.
2007-01-15 05:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are a couple of ways to fix this problem:
The first thing is to change your routine and not end up being cornered by these boys, and using any friends or people you know as shields so you won't get caught up by these guys. If this doesn't work and if they keep coming after you you're going to have to take it up with some teacher or counselor (at first without telling their names) and ask them what you can do. Remember that this is their job and they have to help you, also you don't have to be nice, get these boys in trouble and you may have to snitch on them and tell about what they said to you. Obviously this won't do much for your social life, but it seems like you don't have a very strong social life (no insult intended) so this will only make you look stronger than people thought you were, and will earn you respect at the same time as earning you spite.
The last thing, if you think that the school is doing nothing about this problem is going to the last people you want involved: your parents. Make it seem really bad and tell them everything, often schools don't care to help students since they think that bullying is a normal part of school, but parents don't and they will raise hell about this. If nothing happens after this then you can plan your retirement by suing the school and getting enough money to never have to work a day in your life.
2007-01-15 05:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-02 07:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your counselor or teacher or you principle with the matter. If that does not work try to hang with someone else that will be a witness to the problem. If that doesn't work do you have an older brother or cousin that'll punk them out. If that doesn't work tell your parents to talk to their parents each one of them and let your parents know this is really important. And my last idea is just step outside of your comfort zone and stand up to each one of them and ask them are they having problem at home and that you'll call Dr. Phil for them. Hope I can help good luck baby girl
2007-01-15 05:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by sngozig 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You NEED to report them. You dont have to put up with it. If they make you feel uncomfortable, then you have a right to tell someone. Make it clear to whoever you tell that you dont want them around you at all, I hope your school does everything in their power to keep them away from you, because school is supposed to be a safe place for you to go, and if you don't feel safe, then the school MUST do something about it. And if these boys are threatening you, then there is NO reason why this should be ignored. tell someone please...
2007-01-15 05:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get a can of mace. The next guy that comes up to you - spray him.
If that doesn't get their attention, get a small can of hair spray and a lighter. When they start messing with you, hold the lighter out in front of you and spray the hairspray across the flame (careful not to light yourself on fire - you might want to practice at home first).
God, people are lucky I'm a guy. I probably would've killed at least two dozen guys by now if I was a girl.
2007-01-15 05:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by superfunkmasta 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all what bad things do these boys want you to do!? Find an adult fast and tell them the situation....despite whatever happens...you do not want this to end up any worse than it already is! Get help fast and don't let those boys bully you or pressure you in to any bad, dirty, or harmful situation at all!
2007-01-15 05:24:36 · answer #7 · answered by Daughter of a Coma Guy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be yourself. They are probably pushing you because they can tell you shy and they know it bothers you. Next time, stand up straight and be assertive. Don't act scared. Scare them a little if you have to (I don't mean threaten them, just surprise them with your confidence). They're going to be able to tell if you are afraid when you tell them that you're not going to do whatever it is they want you to do. Make sure you have some conviction in your voice. You have to believe in what you're saying, or no one else will believe it either.
2007-01-15 05:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell someone! If these boys are trying to get you to do bad things and you do them you could end up ruining your whole life right there. If you continue doing those bad things in the future you could end up robbing someone and go to jail. Is that the life you'd want to live?
2007-01-15 05:24:08 · answer #9 · answered by sillyshas 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
TELL SOMEONE!!!!!! Don't keep it to yourself. Tell a teacher,parent,or an adult you trust. This needs to be stopped. Harassment is against the law! Stand up to these boys. Tell Them to stop. They won't really do bad things to you. Let them know whos boss. These boys are just trying to get to you. If you ignore them and dont worry about them they will stop. They are just boys. They are immature. So once again.....TELL SOMEONE AND GET HELP!!!!!!
2007-01-15 06:04:51 · answer #10 · answered by kennady k 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pick out a red outfit and get mad! Take a deep breath and walk up to them and tell them to leave you alone! You know wrong from right so stick to your guns!! Life is testing your moral strength. Hang out with others who don't let themselves get bullied! if you have to, tell a cool teacher in confidence and ask for help!
2007-01-15 05:27:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋