we been friends for 4 months and we are finally going out. he has been with almost a million girls and did alot of bad things like breaking there hearts. So why is he so scared ( does it have todo with me being a virgan.) and also did i push it to far when he was getting out of my car when i french kiss him? im 15 and he is 14 and where in diff. grades is this going to be a proble as well? plz help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2007-01-15 05:17:40 · 14 answers · asked by jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe because he's only 14.
2007-01-15 05:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by ShaLaLaLaLaLaMyOhMy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be totally honest with you,you shouldnt even worry about this right now you should just focus on school and getting to the point in your life where you need to be later.i was fifteen and into all that and i ended up getting pregnat and having a baby by time i was sixteen and had to drop out of high school and i wish i would have waited and worried about school and getting a good job to take care of a kid when the time is right.so really just give up on the boy for now believe me it is the best thing for you right now and untill you can really fall in love.a single boy is not worth ending up as a single mother.haven't you ever watched maury? if not then maybe you should.i hope my answer will give you the one you were seeking
2007-01-15 13:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by newwingsfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, personally I do believe that 14 & 15 are too young to be having sex. If you haven't yet, don't do it now..... find someone who means the world to you and you to him. I have been seeing a man for about 4 months now (we are 47 & 48) and he opens the door for me, walks me to the door is just so much fun to be with and so comfortable to be with... you know why? No pressure to push things. Besides he is very respectful. He just kissed me the first time Dec 14th! Get to know your friend and please don't try to be like anyone else. Be the person you are in your heart, see who he is.
2007-01-15 13:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by offmgr100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run for your life!!! Why would you want to date a slut guy?? He obviously has no respect for himself or for girls. He's not worth your time. You are much more valuable. Sex is destructive. You're 15 - wait to date until you're in a position to be ready for marriage. Otherwise, you're just throwing yourself out to the dogs to be trampled and torn to shreds.
2007-01-15 13:28:33 · answer #4 · answered by BaseballGrrl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say but you are 15 and shouldnt be having sex at that age... kissing is ok... but sex im afraid is a bit of a no no.... it souns like he is a heartbreaker... keep that in mind... he might do the same to you.... so he doesnt kiss you... big deal... its just a kiss... he probably still likes you... if worst comes to the worst im sure you will get over it... ther are other guys out there and one will probably be soooo much better than him... good luck
p.s. if you are silly enough to have sex at that age at least use a condom... last thing we need is another teenage pregnancy
2007-01-15 13:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by natalia121 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well he probably is too overwhelmed since u are 1 year older and when u guys are teens its a huge difference! so take it slow, i mean obviosuly he doesnt feel too comfortable around u and kind of shy since he thinks tha tu are older so u must know more than he does. so try to lay low for a bit and let him be the man for once!
2007-01-15 13:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by Daisy! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably because all you said he did was a lie and when he finally REALLY did get to kiss a girl, it scared him.
I bet he really doesn't know how to do any of that stuff.
2007-01-15 13:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by Querida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are still kind of young but it maybe cos u r still a virgin. Maybe u should talk to him...
2007-01-15 13:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Galinsky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because he is 1 yr. younger than you! Dah try dating guys your age!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-15 13:24:33 · answer #9 · answered by babyangel640 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay.
first of alllll.
its spelled virgin.
second of alll.
dont rush things okay?
just take it slow.
2007-01-15 13:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by the ultimate lacrosse player 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋