i really do care 4 a guy ive been datin 4 a while now. i always tell him im there 4 him if he needs anything. i believe he's gone in2 a depression cus things arent going right in his life. i wanna help him, but i dont wanna be overwhelming @ the same time. he's not really talking to people. he hasnt talked to me in a while. i even asked his bestfriend about him n they told me he hasnt spoke to them in a while and they used 2 go out all the time, basically every other night. he doesnt sound happy when i talk to him @ all. he's really stressed out too, but doesnt want to admit it 2 me. it's really hard to get in touch w/him 2, what can i do to uplift him w/o being 2 much?
2007-01-15 05:14:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's from FL n he's still kinda new to da state n doesnt know many ppl. his bestfriend even told me nobody here really cares about him here. he doesnt have ANY family here either, he's basically alone. i just wanna help, dats all.
2007-01-15 05:16:24 · update #1
just keep telling him that u are there for him and that u always iwill be and then if he has something he wants to tell u then he will
2007-01-15 05:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since u are his gf then u are the only person that can help him right now. let ur bf noe that even though he is down and and depressed u are always there for him. why dont u go to his place and try talking to him tell him that u really want to help him and that its ur job to since u are his gf and that ur the only person he has right now since he has no family here. let him know how imporntant he is to u and u hate seeing him sad and down because it hurts u so much doenst it? to see soemone u really care about depressed? why dont u cook him soemthing let him relax a little bit. he probably is too strssed out about work school or other issues so the only thing u can do is be a good gf and support him ! good luck hope this helps.
2007-01-15 13:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do it seems is to tell him you will be there for him. Also if he is closing himself off to you and the rest of the world. Suggest if he wil go and get some form of help. Remind him that you will always be there for him and maybe even go with him to wherever he gets help.
2007-01-15 13:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by reanne2986 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just ask him out tell him ur there for him anytime he needs to talk or if he needs anything. just call him to ask how hes doin or to grab a bite or whatever it is that will keep his mind off whatever is stressing him out. u dont want him just sitting round @ home cuz that can be very dangerous if hes going to depression. just tell his bestfrend to help you out also and invite him places get him outta the house and just be there for him if u tell him u will.
2007-01-15 13:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by oc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be his friend, be willing to listen, and don't be judgmental.
2007-01-15 13:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by luckyaz128 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know!It's hard to focus.
2007-01-15 13:23:18 · answer #6 · answered by esther 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋