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2007-01-15 05:10:19 · 20 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have 3 ex wifes. The first one and I married as kids and she was pregnant at the time. We now have a 32 year old son who we are both extremely proud of and who has blessed us with a great daughter in law and two wonderful granddaughters. This woman and I remain friends to this day although we divorced 2 years into our marriage.
My second wife and I it seemed grew apart. We have two lovely boys that are fully grown men now, aged 25 and 21 years. They are both in another province now and one is engaged and the second is finding himself before continuing his education. This woman and I see each other the odd time and although we do act friendly towards each other I do not believe that either of us would say that the other was actually a true friend.
My third wife and I ended after her first love became prescrition drugs rather then me. This addiction ended up costing her her life about 5 years after I left her. We did see each other now and again but again did not remain as friends, although we would not wish ill towards each other it just did not work out.
That's the story of my exes and I am proud to say that I did learn something from each of these relationships and as such am not ashamed of being in any of them. It is sad when people speak poorly of their past loves and relationships. If the person was good enough to be with for however long you were with them then you don't go around and bad mouth them afterwards as others will say if the person was that bad then why did you stay, etc. Just my thoughts on loss of relationships.
2007-01-15 05:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had too many b/f's to count... probably somewhere around 16 and i've had a few g/f's too. But really true relationships, i've only had 3. I'm friends with some of my ex's and especially the ones that ended on a mutual decision or just a good note.
2007-01-15 13:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by Mary Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in 3 relationships in the past.
I don't know if I should count the first one because I was only 15.
I've had a lot of guys who liked me and I liked them back. But all they did was lead me on, so we were never officially in a relationship.
I'm still good friends with my 2 real ex's.
I have a boyfriend of almost a year now and we talk about marriage all the time. Oh, and we're in our early 20s if that helps any.
2007-01-15 13:15:52 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have about 35 ex-boyfriends and flings. I'm only cool with about 5, maybe 6 if I were to see them again. We can still be cool, but NO relationship could occur when it didn't work out the first time.
2007-01-15 13:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I have dated about only 10 people, 5 of them have been somewhat serious and 3 were long term and very serious, 1 is an ex-husband and one is my new husband. I am only Friends with one of my ex's and that's only because we have a daughter together
2007-01-15 13:14:33 · answer #5 · answered by cowgrl3611 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I am 22 and I am in my fourth relationship...1st ex..i will speak to him every now and then on myspace but prefer not to communicate with him because he got married when we was still together after three years...oh he married the girl after six months of knowing her...2nd ex well he was just a dog..i look at him and keep going with his broke azz...3rd well i cant stand him either he was really really insecure...he has a girlfriend but is still trying to get back with me..i dont think soo...so the answer is no i am not friends with him plus i dont think it is good to keep friendships if you have already move on like me...i am in love and i dont need a stupid azz ex messing anything up like my boyfriend ex is trying to do....do you know she had the nerve to play on the phone at 2 this morning...but i didnt let it bother me..
2007-01-15 13:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by just me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 ex's who count ( one was 2+ years , the most recent 5+ years) and I'm not in contact with either of them.
2007-01-15 13:19:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many. They are my ex's because they were not right for me. I bear them no grudges. However, I do not keep in touch. What would be the point? They weren't right for me so why keep up? They didn't make me feel good, supported, etc. as a lover so why expect that from them as a friend?
2007-01-15 13:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm currently in my 5th relationship. I am friends with only one of the 4 ex's. He and I will always be friends. We're soul mates!
2007-01-15 13:17:05 · answer #9 · answered by Ring-a-ding-ding 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 relationship, 2 ex's, yes im friends with them
2007-01-15 13:14:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋