Well you see theres this kid and i really liked him, then he asked me out and i said yes, then i found a kid whos nice and funny, hes not really cute, and he asked me out. sooo should i go for looks or personality?
2007-01-15 05:08:26 · 29 answers · asked by cutiepatootieox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the one u like better! trust ur heart. U will know it.
2007-01-15 05:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are using the term "kid" so you are very likely young. I would suggest to hang out with both of them. You can go out with 2 guys at once, just don't get too close to both of them at once. You will learn which you like better. WHen you get OLDER however, you will wind up going for the guy whos nice and funny because you will know looks fade and once that happens, there has got to be something left.
Have fun while you are young though!
-EA
2007-01-15 13:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by Earthy Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are fine but can change with age. Personality is always there. I would go out with the guy and enjoy him since it sounds like you would have a lot of fun.
Personality would win out over looks any time for me. Date a good looking guy who has no personality and that is all you get, looks. And what if the guy has an accident and his looks are messed up. Then you end up with a no-so-good looking buy with no personality.
2007-01-15 13:15:25 · answer #3 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are not into a relationship with none of them, so go out as a day with both of them, and choose the right one for you, but don't look at the outside, look the inside. The pretties person in the outside could be the nastiest person you have ever seen. so take your time to choose, be smart.
2007-01-15 13:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by RED ROSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality. Looks are great, but looks dont stay the same forever. Personality means alot more. If hes a sweet guy, and funny, and caring I would go for him. Id pick personality over looks anyday.
2007-01-15 13:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by --Shizzle(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever suits you...but relationships chosen based on personality will turn out better because suppose the guy with the good looks is a complete @$$hole?
Good luck!
2007-01-15 13:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when you are 60 years old, which will matter to you most then? If you have just dated then a few times, you really don't know what to do. I don't see a problem with dating both till you decide you want to be exclusive, just make sure they know they aren't the only one.
2007-01-15 13:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by Rod Rod Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are so shallow to actually post this question, I think you should go for looks, because the good looking guy will use you and dump you...and this way, the funny sweet guy will not be hurt as badly as he would be if you chose him.
2007-01-15 13:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me the right thing to do is to go out with the guy who asked you out first. then go out with the other guy a few days later. If neither is your boyfriend then you are doing nothing wrong. Good luck
2007-01-15 13:13:26 · answer #9 · answered by The_Game 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not go out with each one? Be honest about it if they ask. See who you feel most comfortable and happy with. That is what dating is all about--to find the person who makes you feel fulfilled.
2007-01-15 13:12:47 · answer #10 · answered by locked_andloaded 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for neither! Love has and will continue to be the bedrock of 'solid' relationships. Looks/ personality is only secondary. Go for the person you like most and listen to your heart. good luck
2007-01-15 13:22:13 · answer #11 · answered by Kissplus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋