Why do a lot of men and women say that a good woman or man is hard to find? Is it because people set their?

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expectations to high and therefore cant find anyone? Or is that there really aren't any decent men or women out there to date? I would have to say that it might be a little of both.

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i think it all depends on how high u set ur bar. or which stars ur shooting for. there plenty of good women and men out there that are willing to settle down and have a relationship, but i think many times they end up single cuz people expect too much or want what they cant have. its not bad to set ur standards high, but it makes a person look like a total idiot when there bar is set so high, yet they have nothing to offer in return. i think if ur gonna set the standards pretty high, u should be able to offer something equivalent back.