whenever my husband and i are intamet he always ends up saying something stupid and i get turned off. does he do it in purpus or does he not find me attractive and just doesnt want to touch me any more?
2007-01-15 04:45:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men are not as "romantic" (naturally) in real life as they are in the movies. You need to lower your expectations a bit.
2007-01-15 04:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes men do not realize how easy it is for women to get turned off, A wise man once told me this: "Men love with their eyes, Women love with their ears."
I think part of it is very true, we, women, are very attuned to every move and sound our partner makes and we also have very long memory. Men, however, are not always as such. Sit him down and tell him that sometimes certain things he says throw you off and ruin the mood for you, he may do this unintentionally. You need to find out if he is doing this on purpose or not, and if it is intentional, then it's a different story all together, it runs deeper and you need to find out why this is going on.
Good Luck
2007-01-15 12:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he might just be nervous...but here try this if you hink it is because he isn't turned on, well go to a adult store and pick something crazy out that you like...then call him at work and tell him you went to that store and got him a suprise, this will make him horny(maybe too horny to say something stupid)...already be wearing it when he gets home and that might work better. but you could just tell him not to speak as you are together.
2007-01-15 12:52:55 · answer #3 · answered by lbitsports 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband says stuff about other women being hot all the time. It doesn't mean he is not attracted to you. Try not to let it get to you and you can also tell him he's being a jerk also.
2007-01-15 12:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by Rhianna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just not good at saying things but i think that maybe not for sure dont jump to conclutions that maybe he chould be with someone else. Me and my bf had that problem and he was cheating on me. just keep an eye on him and dont jump to conclutions. Or he's just being stupid and doesn't want any.
2007-01-15 12:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by Min 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not taking the whole intimacy thing serious any more. Guys are like that. Just sit down and talk to him about it.
2007-01-15 12:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what he is saying. but guys often don't think the way women do, and he might not think what he is saying is bad, try talking to him when your not in bed and talk it thru.
2007-01-15 12:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is because we men are idiots. just put your fingers to his lips and wisper say nothing sweetheart...then at least pretend to enjoy it so he learns to shut up....also make comments like silent sex is great and such...
2007-01-15 12:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by Akela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably spelled it wrong.!
2007-01-15 13:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by buzzwaltz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should say screw the mode
2007-01-15 12:48:22 · answer #10 · answered by nick j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋