i have been dating this girl for about two weeks now and she had to move out of town a couple hours away for family reasons so we decided that we would try a long distance relationship. i called her everyday just to talk for a couple minutes between school and work and then i talked to her thursday and then i called her friday and saturday and she didnt answer her phone. and she didnt call me back. its now monday. what should i do about this
2007-01-15 04:40:44 · 29 answers · asked by superstuddly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Delete her number from your phone and move on.
2007-01-15 04:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you probably shouldn't have tried a long distance relationship with a girl you've only been seeing for two weeks. So my suggestion to you is to stop freaking out. More than likely her cell phone died or something, or her "family reasons" are keeping her from calling you back. There's also the chance that you've only been together for two weeks, she realized that it wasn't a good idea to keep up a long distance relationship, and she's phasing you out. But more than likely it's the former rather than the latter.
In any case, I think you made a mistake even trying to have a long distance realationship with this girl. How old are you two? I don't understand it.
Besides that, Cheers, and good luck with it
2007-01-15 12:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by AbbeyDLaurence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should leave her a message and if you cant then I'm sure by now she's seen your missed calls. If she really cares about you she could eventually call you and tell you whats been going on. If she doesn't want you as her boyfriend anymore then she should be woman enough to tell you. Whatever happens I hope you guys talk it out. I'm in a long distance relationship and sometimes these things happen. Maybe not as extreme as this but nevertheless, these things do happen. So, she'll come round and when she does start talking.
2007-01-15 12:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by blufiah_tam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are. It depends on how far in the relationship you have gone. If you're old enough to drive, it's just a couple hours. Text her and let her know you'll be in her neck of the woods the next weekend.
But if you have just been dating for two weeks, you might not have had a large enough impact on her to keep her wanting to keep the relationship going.
I dated a girl in highschool from the 10'th grade till we graduated. She was the first person I made love to. She moved from Mississippi to New Jersey and we did the long distance relationship for about a month. Then she met someone in her town and it tore me up, but I moved on. 18 years later, I move to Maryland, she found out and now we're talking again. But that's it. We're just talking now. I get this feeling after I met her at Chilis last weekend, that she wants to see me again and maybe see if we can strike up a relationship.
Just understand this. You're young now! There will be many women in and out of your life. It's best for you to find a new love and if she wants you, she'll get back to you, now or 18 years later!
Know this and know this to be true. Women want what they can not have. If they know that they have you wrapped around thier finger, they will not want you any more. They like the chase. I think it's a curse that God put on them from Adam and Eve. When she bit the forbidden fruit, she (the woman) was cursed to always seek what she can not have. NEVER I mean NEVER let them know you care more about them than they care about you. Otherwise, they will seek another man! It's just that simple.
Hold your head up high and be confident about who you are!
2007-01-15 13:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by 35 goodlookinmalefrombalt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust her until you know otherwise and give it more time. There are any number of reasons that she may not have been able to return your calls. If you still haven't gotten a return phone call in the next few days, try leaving one more phone message and include such information as you were just concerned, wanted to make sure she was okay, and to let you know if something is wrong as you'd want to help if possible. The ball will then be in her court, and hopefully she'll call to let you know what's going on. If not, you'll survive. good luck
2007-01-15 12:48:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey bud,
just stop calling so much. She wants her personal space. "Less is more" in the dating world. If you talk less to her soemtimes, shell want more of you. Instead of calling friday, SATERDAY and SUNDAY, just try calling for 10m every couple of days. ANd be unpredictable, call three days later, then call the day after that, then dont call her for awhile...
PLUS, she should call you also. You are being a WUSS with her, Don't call her until she calls you. Sheyll probably have a stupid excuse, but don't forgive her easily, be a MAN and ask why she didnt answer your calls, and tell her to NOT do that again
I hope I helped,
Good Luck
Sam
2007-01-15 12:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by J&B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two weeks isn't a long time to establish any relationship.
The distance usually proves to be a problem for most people.
You have to live your life without the other person being present, and it is very easy to get caught up in new stuff.
It was fun while it lasted... give it up.
It is over...
2007-01-15 12:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is that long distance relationships usually don't work out. Your girlfriend probably is thinking the same thing. Just let her know sometime that you don't think it is a good idea that you stay together. If she doesn't answer, just text her and tell her to call you because it's important. Good luck!
~Rachey
2007-01-15 12:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing...wait. leave a message or something(but only one...if you leave more you'll seem needy and thats never a turn on)
she seems to really like you. dont obsess over it, wait and she will call you back when she has the time. like you said, she has gone for family reasons. maybe these reasons are taking up all of her time and she just hasnt found the spare time to call you. just leave a message and she will get back to you....good luck!
2007-01-15 12:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by chatterbox15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time that you finally get to talk to her tell her how you feel about this and that it cant happen anymore. you need to know whats going on. It could just be that she has a family issue (which you should be sensitive too) or something harmless like that. whatever it is ask her and then give her a chance to explain.
2007-01-15 12:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by signalfirst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want a long distance relationship. She just doesn't know how to tell you. You haven't been involved in this relationship long enough to be emotionally invoved. Just move on. Good Luck
2007-01-15 12:52:29 · answer #11 · answered by Suzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋