Been hanging out with a girl for a few weeks now and we both like each other. We've been intimate on several occassions, but she wants to take it slow (i.e. not be in a committed relationship) because she is still dealing her last relationship. Several things are weighing on my mind. Can she get over her last relationship while taking it "slow" with me? Should I stick around and see what happens? I'm trying to balance letting her have the time needed to recover, yet not losing what we have.
2007-01-15 04:32:59 · 14 answers · asked by DL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Walk away...... if she's really over this guy and doesn't want to loose you........ she will stop you. If she doesn't stop you, then she's not that into you. If she stops you, then give her an ultimatum, and please be serious.
2007-01-15 04:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by Suzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you don't have too much if its only been a few weeks! Im sure she will get over her other relationship if shes been intimate w/ u already. Only u know if u should stick around her right? If u think she is special then tell her .If she does not feel guilt in any way about her last relationship then I would think u have nothing to worry about!Some people just do not have a problem looking back when they knew thier past relationship is over. Sometimes its wonderful to look ahead 4 tommorrow instead of going backwards.
2007-01-15 04:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way for her to forget a past relationship is falling in love again.
Ive been in your place and i did the wrong thing.I tough she really needed time. Thats not what she needs, she needs a real man she can love. So, start behaving like a man. Dont chase her as if shes a prize you can get...YOU ARE THE PRIZE, YOU RE WHAT SHE NEEDS!
Go out with her, but don act needy or desperate. If she doesnt want to go out, leave her home and go out with you friends. have her following YOUR rules and soon she ll love to follow you around and forget she ever met another guy.
Dont call her or talk to her everyday unless she calls you. If she gets too much of you she ll get bored soon. To create attraction, she must need you, and she wont need you if you are around all the time. Scarcity is the key.
Women need a self confident man, act as one and she ll soonforget any man but you.
play the game
2007-01-15 04:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by Franco83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Im a girl who just got done having my heartbroken....I started seein a guy a few weeks afterwards...Since I have been talkin to him I feel great and feel like there is more to life then being depressed over this one guy...Yes it still hurts but everyday it gets better...Me and this guy take one day at a time b/c rushing into things can cause a lot of problems...you have to get to know someone b/c if you rush into things u can miss out on a lot of things....Yes she will get over him....It sounds bad but sometimes it takes seeing someone else to realize you are worth so much more then what the other person realized....Just stick by her side...show her you care...dont rush...take one day at a time...just be friends....you will be surprised what might come out of it...and if its not a relationship then you have gained a friends...can never have too many friends...
2007-01-15 04:42:28 · answer #4 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want a girl like this away she cant committed to her boy first and using you for a booty call and you want what a relationship dude put the pipe down a toss up is a toss up even crack head know that give her 20.00 dollar and move on
2007-01-15 04:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probly leave her alone for a while because she is probobly still sad about her last relationship but, that doesn't mean you should dump her or something like that. If you just wait she will probobly be ready for another relationship.
2007-01-15 04:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by Neko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my friend had a similar situation. she still had feelings for her ex but my guy friend really liked her so they started to go out and things were going fine but she always thought about her ex and she just wanted to take things slow becuase she didnt want to end up hurting my guy friend. and he was fine with it. i noe its hard for u and it was hard for him too he couldnt stand going out with someone who still had feelings for another and couldnt let go. so he eventually had to break up with her for the benefit of the both of them. so if u really like this girl u should know what benefits the both of u. and btw she said she had feeligns for my guy friend but only a little bit and she was still caught up in her last relationship. good luck hope this helps!
2007-01-15 04:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by Daisy! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She alreadly told you she doesn't want to be in a committed relationship with you. Let it go and move on.
2007-01-15 04:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slower than her. If she is the one, only time will tell. Besides women dont find men that are easily available attractive.
2007-01-15 04:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by Matt M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like her you'll wait for her...you wont lose what you have just by waiting for things...maybe shes just seeing how long you'll wait or how much you like her so just give her time man...be there for her when you need her to be..that sort of thing//
2007-01-15 04:40:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋