i'm 6 wks pregnant and my boyfriend reactions is worrying me a lot we always talk about having a baby now that i'm pregnant he is mad asking me 1000 qsts i dont know if to act mean w/ him or just give him time this is his first baby and i know is making him happy from inside but i heard from some one that he dosen't want to be w/ me no more. so what can i do?
2007-01-15 04:32:02 · 2 answers · asked by ruddy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Just pause and give yourself and him time to settle in to everything that is new. Don't tell him you need to take a break and think. Just use patience in giving your response to his actions. And definitely don't get upset by what other people tell you he said. He could have just been venting because he's scared. Those things mean NOTHING. Also take note that some miserable people will want you to be miserable too, so becareful from whom you take advice. I know it seems hard since your probably a little emotional right now due to hormones (I know, I'm 8.5 wks myself) but you are going to need to master the art of patience before the baby comes so now's a good time to start practicing. He will come around or he won't and either way everything will be OK. :)
Congratulations!
2007-01-15 05:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by Not Laughing w/ U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to HIM. Ask him point blank what the deal is. The truth of the matter is- what's done is done, and you will get through this- with or without him. But what you need to remember is- your first priority now is your child, not some man. good luck!
2007-01-15 12:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by Tara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋